Relationships

March 1, 2010December 29, 2010 Joseph Dewey

This entry is part 54 of 62 in the series 2010

Posted Oct 20, 2010
Ruth writes:
I am interested to know that as you had to consummate the relationship in this lifetime, then for what particular reason? Especially when you didn’t stay together for a really long time?

JJ
I could write a book on those four years we spent together but will probably never tell the full story. In using the word “consummate” I did not mean to imply that the relationship was over forever as we meet people we both love and hate again and again in different capacities from life to life. Your spouse in one life may be your child or parent – or best friend in another. By consummate, I meant that we fulfilled what we could in this life.

I anticipate that my second wife, Brenda, will reappear in a future life as a student and become involved in whatever work I will be doing.

Because my first wife rejected my higher teachings in this life I doubt if she will be a student of mine in the next life but she could very well show up in some capacity.

The Spirit told me that I should do everything in my power to keep Brenda pointed toward the work I was to do and she could become a great help in helping to accomplish great things.

When I first met her she was going through bankruptcy and was in bad shape financially and showed no sign of having power to free my hands so I could concentrate on the spiritual work. She was willing to give it a try however.

The first thing we did as we began our relationship was – I taught her how to sell signs and we took off together to see America. We spent three months traveling all over the country and had a great time with kind of a working vacation.

Then after this period of time we almost had too much of a good thing and headed back home. Brenda then got a job wit a small computer chip company called Micron. This eventually grew to be one of the largest in the world. She started out on minimum wage and worked up to management, but became frustrated and wanted to quit and work with me in real estate. I thought this would be great, but then we thought there may be a possibility that Micron would offer her extra money to stay.

At that time however, Micron stock was at an all time low and most people thought it was going to go under and no one was getting a raise.

But, I said to her that because she had knowledge of quality circles that no one else in the company did, that I though there was a good chance they would double her salary to entice her stay. I told her to go to Joe Parkinson (president) and tell him she would stay if he doubled her salary.

They basically took the deal, but deep inside I wished they had not because I sensed trouble and felt our relationship would have survived if we had gone into real estate together.

We decided the money and security was too good to pass up and she would now make enough so I could quit real estate and do the spiritual work.

As I organized a local group who should be one of my first students but my future wife, Artie.

Anyway, the big raise and increase of status changed Brenda and from that point on she seemed to lose faith in me and the work and seemed resentful that she was the main wage earner.

This also made it difficult for me to focus on the group work I was attempting. Friction increased and her faith in me continued to drop to the point she threatened to leave me on a regular basis. Each time she did the Spirit told me to work with her and several times she received an inner confirmation that brought back her support for a season.

But we went two steps back and only one forward and when we finally reached a very fragile point the inner voice spoke to me and said: “Do not worry. If Brenda doesn’t work out, Artie will help you.”

We reached an impasse a short time later and I left her and moved on with a relationship with Artie who became my present wife.

We’ve been married over 22 years now and she still has faith in me. After all we’ve been through she deserves a place in the New Jerusalem.

But the real work is yet to begin and that beginning is finally near. I am now waiting for the inner voice to announce, “It is time.”

Going Molecular — The Molecular Relationship

December 6, 2008May 31, 2017 Joseph Dewey

“Going Molecular – The Molecular Relationship” Quotes

¹ The time is at hand to have revealed “knowledge which is hid up because of unbelief.” An example of the knowledge which was hid up is the Molecular Relationship which came by way of revelation from the Christ.

² Even though we are not ready to form a working molecule here yet list members without a suitable partner who are interested should be keeping an eye out for a working partner. Some working partnerships will turn romantic, others will just stay on a friendship level and still others will not be that harmonious and some rearrangements will be made.

³ The Molecular Relationship is one such revelation that fits within the purpose of the Plan of Light and your will or mine has nothing to do with its activation. Our job is merely to follow the whisperings of the inner voice and create the necessary structure as habitation for divine life.

⁴ The word “molecular” is important because it is descriptive of the most evolved relationship in the physical world.

⁵ The creation of the first human molecules will require the greatest act of faith demonstrated on the earth for many years.

⁶ The main emphasis of the one [The Molecule] Jesus made was what the people considered miracles, but there are many other points of emphasis that we have not seen yet.

⁷ The basic idea I have presented in the Molecular Relationship is this: (1) The ideal endpoint of the male/female relationship is a committed monogamous marriage where both are happy with the relationship. (2) Ideally that relationship will place the female in the receiving position and the male in the sending position in the majority of circumstances. (3) To create this ideal the male should be evolved enough to send to and stimulate his mate toward higher evolution. (4) This ideal is not an end, but a beginning to a greater relationship which corresponds to the Molecular World.

⁸ Participation in the greater life increases freedom and does not decrease it.

⁹ If the energy flow continues without resistance the molecule will live indefinitely.

¹⁰ Each one of us has a higher self sometimes called the Solar Angel, but this is connected to us whether or not we are in the Molecular Relationship.

¹¹ The Masters including the Christ are all in Molecular Relationship and their molecules embody a greater life.

¹² All humans in the universe will eventually identify with higher lives. This identification principle is in a very embryonic stage on earth in the God kingdom and is practiced by the Masters and will soon be practiced by some of humanity in the Molecular Relationship.

¹³ Those who enter the Molecular Relationship in the near future will be infants in the principle of identification and it will take many millions of years for us to master it. Nevertheless, the little we will comprehend as this next great step is made will create great change.

¹⁴ There is a big difference, however, in the application of the Molecular Relationship with plants, animals and humans. With the lesser lives the intelligence involved is supplied by great entities that preside over the lesser kingdoms, but with humans there is the privilege of joining our intelligence with greater intelligence to consciously participate in our next great leap in evolution.

¹⁵ Few married or committed couples have the interplay necessary to become a Molecular Atom (Adam).

¹⁶ The molecular entities are on a totally different order than is human and are a higher correspondence of a crystal, just as humans are a higher correspondent to atoms. Technically we could call it a crystalline life within a human molecule.

¹⁷ The only ones who understand the Molecular Order at present are the Masters, but they experience it from the vantage point of living within the kingdom of God as a group.

¹⁸ We will play out every possible dream and adventure that is within human imagination as the molecular order is expanded throughout the universe. After every dream has been accomplished and there are no more challenges from a human viewpoint then time will cease to exist and the principle of identification comes into play.

¹⁹ The highest level of commitment in the Molecular Order will eventually be the commitment to the Plan because it works.

²⁰ The greater lives who incarnate in the Molecular Order be not confined forever to the same set of lives but will go through numerous bodies as they progress on their level.

²¹ To establish a connection between mankind and the Hierarchical Molecule a link has to be created so the spiritual flow will not be broken.

²² If perchance you marry a person of standard interests the chances are that he will fight you tooth and nail to frustrate your participation on this list or the Molecular Order.

²³ The Molecular Relationship eventually leads us to the principle of identification.

²⁴ The Molecular Relationship is Nature’s order and so it is a natural thing that all of humanity’s organizations will gravitate, in their evolutionary process, toward it.

²⁵ One molecule though, may over a period of time, be the home of more than one higher life.

²⁶ Jesus compared the Molecular Order linking to the greater life as a branch connected to the vine.

²⁷ A higher life, as discussed here, is a life composed of, or a molecule or cell of, individual entities who have passed through the human kingdom.

²⁸ The Molecular Business operates on similar principles as the Spiritual Molecule except that the numbers of individuals in the various molecules will not be determined in advance, but will be resolved as needed.

²⁹ When a complete Molecule achieves oneness of thought through becoming sensitive to the Soul, then the Spiritual Hierarchy, which is presided over by the Christ, can pour forth its spiritual energy, which is channeled down from the very presence of God into a group here on earth.

³⁰ With union through Soul Contact, we will then have a functioning Molecule that can be accepted by the Hierarchy to lay the foundation for the complete transformation of the whole planet earth which will bring about the redemption from the Fall of Man as prophesied in the scriptures.

³¹ There are two basic mantras that Molecular members are urged to recite. The first is The Song of the 144,000. The second major mantra was revealed through Alice A. Bailey. This is called The Great Invocation and is said to be uttered by the Christ himself on a daily basis.

³² In a Molecule of twenty-four individuals each person involved must be capable of such [soul] contact or [soul] contact for the group as a whole will not be achieved.

³³ Male/Female entities as individuals form human atoms, not molecules and this requires a one to one relationship, just as there is always one proton for each electron in nature.

³⁴ The advantage of the Molecular Business is that the employee has more freedom to move in with a group that is compatible.

³⁵ Each individual in the Molecule must have spiritual contact to make it work and activate the spiritual flow.

³⁶ In the molecular relationship, if you do not like something your leader is doing, you can challenge him for leadership and call for a vote.

³⁷ With a change in the entity [occupying the molecule] there will be a change in the emphasis of direction and the manifestation of higher properties or the miraculous.

³⁸ One of my goals before I leave the scene of things here is I want to get the molecular relationship going so it is self healing.

³⁹ When two or more molecules are functioning well there will be such efficient contact with the Oneness Principle so it will seem that if you are a member of one you are a member of them all. Also a number of molecules will work together on various projects. You can also exchange your position with a member of another molecule and thus move from one molecule to another.

⁴⁰ Twenty-four human units creating a molecule draws one greater life, not multiple ones. If we have two molecules created then two greater lives can incarnate into two bodies.

⁴¹ When I wrote the Molecular Relationship I did not have the understanding of the difference between unlimited and infinite. Now I do and see that I was not exactly correct in my past wording.

⁴² In a nutshell the function of the molecular order is to extend the benefits and powers of the higher kingdoms to the lower.

⁴³ The mere gathering of twenty-four does not create a working molecule. It has to be planned and executed with the cooperation of the Spiritual Hierarchy.

⁴⁴ Molecular Politics is our best bet because it doesn’t rely on changing the current Constitution or system.

⁴⁵ I use the word “molecular” in relation to the new political and business groups not because they are the same as the spiritual organizations, but because they lead to greater group work and they involve sharing group energy and thought.

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Relationships

December 6, 2008June 25, 2017 Joseph Dewey

Book Of Quotes

Inspirational, Spiritual & Metaphysical Quotes

From The Writings Of JJ Dewey

1. “A person may use common sense principles in their business and have great success, yet let all reason fly out the window in their relationships or with their religion.”

2. “The more spheres of relationship available to magnetic pull the greater the manifestation of love.”

3. “The initiative to tread the path of love is yours alone, but our growth in love as well as light is dependent on others to a great degree.”

4. “The relationship of humanity to Christ has not been sufficient the past 2000 years and have indeed lacked a fullness as was prophesied by Saul.”

5. “There is nothing wrong with any relationship if pursued harmlessly by free will.”

6. “The principle to work toward in all relationships is the balancing of energies.”

7. “The greatest balance is achieved by a one-to-one relationship when we are talking about anything involving sex.”

8. “Even the Great Ones depend on relationship for growth and higher learning.”

9. “If we are complete by ourselves then any type of relationship would be completely unnecessary and there would be no association which would benefit or enhance us in any way.”

10. “If you are not married, or seem to have no prospects, do not despair for it is quite possible that you will learn more through non marriage relationships than through marriage itself.”

11. “Remember this. Marriage is a relationship, but it is only one relationship out of many.”

12. “It is indeed true that we must have relationship for us to progress on the path of return and if we are not married we must examine the relationships we do have and make the best of them.”

13. “The relationships you do have in present time are very important; else your soul would not have brought them to you.”

14. “If it is indeed in the design of God that you be married you will feel it when the time is right, but until that time it is best to live in the world where we find ourselves and see the many opportunities to serve in the relationships available in the Now. They are always there to be found.”

15. “The thread of commonality which goes through all relationships is that our circumstances in each life are arranged by our souls in such a manner to aid with our maximum advancement toward progress, service and wholeness.”

16. “All creation is composed of relationships.”

17. “Without relationship there would be no form, no creation, no intelligence, no love and no universe.”

18. “Some seekers have made the claim that they have evolved beyond relationship, that they need no one else besides themselves, but such is an illusion.”

19. “Whether we want to admit it or not all of us are deeply involved in relationship.”

20. “God himself needs us in relationship and if God should need us for relationship then surely we need God and each other.”

21. “Eventually we will have levels of higher relationship never before experienced which we call the Molecular Relationship.”

22. “As it is, none of us have a perfect relationship, nor should we expect one, for we are all individuals. We can, however, seek to have a fulfilling one, especially when the desired energy flow is understood.”

23. “When the time is right a good romantic partner will come into your life. In the meantime a working non romantic partner will work much better than a spouse who does not support you.”

24. “A major cause and effect of discord in relationships is arguing.”

25. “Affection is extremely important in a male-female relationship. It is the glue that cements the bond leading to oneness.”

26. “A yielding nature is essential to create oneness in any relationship and it must be possessed by both parties.”

27. “Each one of us will be much happier when we realize that criticism, insults (real and imagined) and barbs will come whenever we have a relationship with one or more people.”

28. “In a relationship, you both give and receive, but the giving and receiving is NEVER equal in this world. If you are giving more than receiving, then by default you become the teacher in the relationship.”

29. “When one divorces frivolously, on a whim, or because of betrayal with another person, definite harm can come. It is generally recognized that a committed couple, especially with children should do everything in their power to rekindle their love and live together in peace.”

30. “You can’t please everyone so just be you, do your best and move on with harmlessness.”

31. “All unhappiness in any relationship can be traced back to a failure to communicate by one or both parties.”

32. “Put aside negative feelings and move on, explore and learn from each other.”

33. “It is our responsibility as a species to take relationship to its next great beginning.”

34. “There are times to learn and share through marriage and times to learn through other relationships.”

35. “No one has ever been truly happy in a relationship who has not had a hope of unity or union with others.”

36. “All people feel a need for more union than they have at the present moment.”

37. “It is important to contemplate the root source of happiness. It can be summed up in one sentence: Interaction with others that leads to unity.”

38. “Ending a relationship with openness and honesty instead of deceit and betrayal keeps the door open for progress on the spiritual path.”

39. “Eventually all must learn to master the intimate relationship on the road to liberation and unity.”

40. “There is indeed a principle of forgiveness, but it has much more to do with a person’s relationship with his own soul than good or evil or a decree from God.”

41. “People are following the principle of harmlessness when they have learned to control their emotional bodies to the extent that they are able to practice right thought, speech and action in their relationships with others, themselves and their environment. It means they have a constructive and positive approach to everything they do.”

42. “The relationships we have with each other and the influence we wield is a display in miniature of the influences of the planets and other heavenly bodies.”

43. “Many teachers from the other side who work with humanity are fellow disembodied humans and are not Masters. A relationship with these beings would be much more similar to a relationship with a fellow human on the earth than a disciple to a Master.”

44. “To disagree because of unnecessary illusion and misunderstanding creates waste of time and distance in relationship.”

45. “The stars do not yet have an organization as complex as a human city. They do have relationship, but they are simple relationships and even these relationships are created more through the interplay of advanced lives who have passed through the human kingdom rather than that of the actual solar life force itself.”

46. “We owe our vary existence to the intimate relationships of the tiny lives out of which we are composed.”

47. “Many there are who teach oneness with God yet fail to have a relationship with even one human, out of billions available, where a semblance of oneness is demonstrated.”

48. “When Jesus said “I and my Father are one,” He merely reached a realization of the relationship of His own holy spirit in relationship to God and this principle applies to us all when we attain to “the stature of the fullness of Christ.”

49. “In principle, ‘A Course in Miracles’ is the best relationship book that’s ever been written, a totally new light on principles. There is elaboration on principles on relationships in there that have never been given to mankind before.”

50. “The relationship of the Masters such as Christ to the higher permanent inhabitants of Shamballa corresponds to the human relationship to the Masters.”

51. “The true science of astrology is built around the science of relationships. The principle is this. One living being in relationship with another living being will influence that entity.”

52. “Relationship and the establishment of new and greater relationship is an eternal principle.”

53. “Forget for the moment about any mass appearance of the Christ and instead consider your individual relationship with God.”

54. “The most important area of trust in a marriage relationship is love.”