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The Solar Angel

May 20, 2025 Joseph Dewey

The Solar Angel

A very complex treatise could be written on the solar angels, as DK says quite a bit about their history, incarnation into this system and their interaction with lesser lives. We’ll thus keep this defining article as simple as possible while giving the reader a grasp of its essence.

The term “Solar Angel” was made popular in the Bailey writings and has a scant mention in other Theosophical writings. Blavatsky only mentions it a couple times, but also calls them Manasaputras, Sons of God, Mind-born sons, Sons of Wisdom and various other names. They are also classified as Agnishvattas in the Bailey writings.

As it is, most of what we know about them is from DK in the Bailey writings. Here is a brief summary.

The Solar Angels are very advanced entities who went though many incarnation experiences as we do here, but in a previous creation and achieved a high degree of perfection and liberation.

“We must remember that they are the beings who, in earlier manvantaras have achieved, and who—in this round—waited for a specific moment at which to enter, and so continue their work. Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Page 699

After a long period of advancement, they rested in the great pralaya or “in the Heart of God until the hour was come.” (TCF Pg 702)

Their hour came when there was a need for primitive humans to obtain self-consciousness and eventually become solar angels themselves.

Approximately 18 million years ago they came to assist the primitive humans in reaching self-consciousness through stimulating their minds through their causal bodies. They have been here ever since assisting us in and out of incarnation attempting to bring us upward in awareness to where they are. Concerning them it is written:

“The great solar Angel, Who embodies the real man and is his expression on the plane of higher mind, is literally his divine ancestor, the “Watcher” Who, through long cycles of incarnation, has poured Himself out in sacrifice in order that man might BE.” Initiation Human and Solar, Pg 115

“Their appearance upon the mental plane brought about the union of Spirit and matter, and from this union was born a self-conscious Identity, the Ego.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Page 702

Slowly the process has taken place in that the human souls have been stimulated and eventually begin to consciously recognize their solar parent. We are finally at the state where a handful of humanity have learned to be one with and adjust to the vibration of the solar angel so they will move in consciousness from the lower lunar control to the solar. When this happens, the solar angel has completed its mission and returns to its Source.

“The sacrifice of the solar angels brought the fourth kingdom in nature into being. The “returning nirvanis” (as they are called in esoteric literature), with deliberation and full understanding, took human bodies in order to raise those lower forms of life nearer to the goal. These were and are ourselves. The “Lords of Knowledge and Compassion and of ceaseless persevering Devotion” (who are ourselves) chose to die in order that lesser lives might live, and this sacrifice has made possible the evolution of the indwelling consciousness of Deity.” Esoteric Psychology, Vol 2, Page 92

“The causal body disintegrates; the personality fades out, and illusion is ended.” Treatise on White Magic Pg 388

“Once he becomes the conscious builder himself, seeking to control the forces and builders of his lower nature, and to construct the Temple of Solomon, then he is no longer subject to the earlier conditions. He becomes a ruler, a builder, and a transmitter, until the time comes when he is one with the solar Angels, and the work of human evolution is accomplished. Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Pg 946

“Then the Bull of God (enlightened human) carries the light in his forehead, and his eye transmits the radiance; His head, with magnetic force, resembles the blazing sun, and from the lotus of the head, the path of light issues. It enters into the Greater Being, producing a living fire. The Bull of God sees the Solar Angel, and knows that Angel to be the light wherein he walks. Treatise on White Magic, Pg 108

From the time that we arrive at self-consciousness to the fourth initiation where the lower self is sacrificed, that which we call the “higher self” usually has reference to the Solar Angel which overshadows our developing soul. But then the time arrives where our own soul becomes one with the Solar Angel and shares in its awareness. When this time arrives, the Solar Angel has completed its mission and returns to its Source. It has not only assisted lives lower than itself, but has gained valuable experience that will aid it its own progression.

Meanwhile, the human soul has progressed to the status of a solar angel and instead of being overshadowed by a solar being the pilgrim is overshadowed by his own monad which has never left its Source.

As a solar angel the entity has a new sense of mission that “Through their sacrifice, matter is lifted up into Heaven.” Esoteric Psychology II Page 93

In other words, the goal is to link heaven and earth, or we could say:

“Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.” Matt 6:10

My face is set, my gait is fast, my goal is Heaven, my road is narrow, my way is rough, my companions are few, my guide is reliable, my mission is clear. I cannot be bought, compromised, detoured, lured away, turned back, diluted, or delayed. I will not flinch in the face of sacrifice, hesitate in the presence of adversity, negotiate … at the table of the enemy, ponder at the pool of popularity, or meander in a maze of mediocrity. I won’t give up, shut up, let up, or slow up. – Robert Moorehead

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The Lunar and Solar Pitris

May 17, 2025 Joseph Dewey

The Lunar and Solar Pitris

The word Pitris means “Father.” They are called our Fathers because they interact with the negative aspect of matter (Mother) in the physical, astral and mental to create form and consciousness.

The Lunar Pitris are the Fathers of life below the human state and the Solar Pitris are the Fathers of human consciousness and above. An individual’s Solar Angel would be a Solar Pitris that interacting with refined substance to give birth to your consciousness.

The Lunar Pitris interact with matter to build the vehicles (bodies) of man animal and the entire body of form for the Planetary Logos.

The Solar Pitris interacts with higher substance to create the egoic, or casual body of man. As the energy of this refined body unfolds the consciousness expands and soul contact is achieved.

Quotes shedding further light:

“These lunar Pitris embody the substance of man’s lower bodies, just as the solar Pitris sacrifice themselves to give him his egoic body, and his consciousness. They are substance in its dual aspect, and the Lunar Pitris in their higher grades are the positive energy of atomic substance, and in their lower are the negative aspect of the same substance. They might be considered, in connection with man, as triple in their ranks.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Pages 779-780

“The solar Pitris, therefore, could give to man his consciousness; the lunar Pitris could give to him the instinctual consciousness of his vehicles. In their aggregate in all the kingdoms of nature, on this planet and elsewhere, they give to the planetary Logos and to the solar Logos the sumtotal of the form consciousness of Their respective bodies.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire Pg 781

The Lunar, or Barhishad Pitris have the following function:—S. D., II, 99.

They are the Ancestors of Man.—S. D., II, 107.
They are the Fashioners of his form.
They possessed the physical creative fire.
They could only clothe the human monads.
They could not make man in their likeness.
They could not give him mind.—S. D., II, 82.
They build his external form.
They give the lower principle.—S. D., II, 92.

Temporarily they are the Conquerors of Spirit.—S. D., II, 66.

Spirit becomes immersed in material forms.
Forms are the battle ground.
Eventually Spirit will slay the forms.—S. D., II, 67.
Note the esoteric order.—S. D., II, 88, 92, 100; II, 116. From Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Notes Pg 618

“In solar fire, these solar Pitris in their ninefold formation represent and make possible the unfolding of the consciousness of the Monad through the medium of the Ego in the three worlds of human evolution.

“In fire by friction, the lunar Pitris are represented and constitute the lower self, the personality, or those vehicles by means of which the Ego in turn is to acquire experience on the lower planes.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Page 819

“It must not be forgotten here that the work of the solar Pitris from their point of view, is not primarily the evolution of man, but is the process of their own development within the plan of the solar Logos. The evolution of the human race is, for them, but a method.

“Perfected men are in the councils of the planetary Logos of their particular ray; the solar Pitris are in the council of the solar Logos.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Page 843

“The solar Pitris and devas find their force expression most adequately through man, with all that is included in that term. They are the source of his self-consciousness, and it is their action upon the negative aspect which produces the human Ego (on a large scale, viewing them in their totality as cosmic force); it is their action upon the negative or mother aspect which, on cosmic levels, produces that Self-conscious Unity, a solar Logos, functioning through His physical vehicle. From the Christian standpoint, the greater Builders are the Holy Spirit, or force overshadowing and fecundating matter, whilst the negative or lesser Builders correspond to the Virgin Mary.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Page 617

“The lunar Pitris, and lesser builders from the systemic point of view find their fullest expression in the animal kingdom. When they, as the initiatory impulse, had produced animal man they had performed their prime function, and just as (on a smaller scale and in connection with only one of the Heavenly Men) the moon is a dying and decadent world, so on a systemic scale and therefore covering a vast period of time, the work of the lunar Pitris is slowly coming to a conclusion as the power of the third kingdom, the animal, over the human is being superseded by spiritual power; the systemic correspondence to lunar pitric activity will occultly die out.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Pages 617-618

“A hint as to the constitution of these solar Pitris and Manasadevas may come to the student who ponders upon the place of the egoic unit in the body of the planetary Logos, and in the particular centre of which it forms a component part. These Manasadevas and Dhyan Chohans who produce self-consciousness in man are indeed the energy and substance of the cosmic Heavenly Man.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Pg 732

“The Dhyanis (Pitris) are those who have evolved their BHUTA (doubles) from themselves, which RUPA (form) has become the vehicle of monads (seventh and sixth principles) that had completed their cycle of transmigration in the three preceding Kalpas (Rounds). Then, they (the astral doubles) became the men of the first Human Race of the Round. But they were not complete, and were senseless.” Secret Doctrine, Vol 1, Page 183

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Devas of Emotion and Mind

May 16, 2025May 16, 2025 Joseph Dewey

Devas of Emotion and Mind

Agnisuryans

These Devas create form in the astral or emotional world. These create the forms in the heavens and hells in the next world that form the habitation of many souls after death. They also create the forms in the devachan – or heaven as defined by Theosophy.

Even though they exist in a plane above the physical we can still influence them through sound and by our emotional desires. One reason that those who have a powerful one-pointed desire manifest successfully on the physical plane is because these Devas responds to emotion.

Key Statements DK made about Agnisuryans

“The Agnisuryans are the builders on the sixth subplane of the cosmic physical plane, our systemic astral plane. They represent, as I have before hinted, the sympathetic nervous system in the logoic physical body, just as their brothers of the seventh vibration represent the sumtotal of the circulatory or blood system.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire Pg 634

“The Function of the Agnisuryans. The devas of the astral plane are those with whom man is very specially connected at this time owing to his astral polarisation, and to the place desire and feeling play in his development. Consciousness expands through contact, through intelligent appreciation of that which is contacted, and through realisation of that which is to be gained through a specific contact. That which is contacted depends upon reciprocal vibration, and the place therefore of desire (which is the going out after sensation) and of feeling (which is the reflex of that desire) is of real importance; they put man constantly in touch—even though he realises it not—with deva substance of some kind or another.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Page 661

(The disciple) “learns to choose the Way of light and to see his form and all forms as custodians of the light. So he buckles down to the work of making the astral body simply a reflector of that light and by the quelling of desire, through the subjugation of the “Agnisuryans” who constitute his astral body and are the living substance of the astral plane, he learns to function as an adept on that plane, to pierce through its illusion and to see life true.” A Treatise on White Magic, Pg 238

“These elementals and devas are called the Agnisuryans, and in their totality are the fiery essences of buddhi, hence their lowest manifestation is on the sixth plane, the astral.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Pg 68

“It will again be apparent why the Agnisuryans are of such supreme importance; they embody force which is a direct emanation from the cosmic astral plane and which reveals—when triply blended—the desire nature of our Heavenly Man, and of any particular planetary Logos. In the two opposites, which are called by the theologians “”Heaven and Hell,”” we have two of these types of force hinted at, and in this thought we have indicated one of the keys to the astral plane.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire Pg 676

“This angle of the matter should be studied in order to bring out the true meaning of this sixth order of devas, whose symbol is the six-pointed Star set at a particular angle and in full manifestation. The six-pointed star is the sign that a “Son of Necessity” (no matter whether God or man) has sought physical incarnation. The devas of the sixth order, the Agnisuryans, are a prime factor in bringing this about.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire, Pages 669-670

The Agnishvattas

These are lofty devas that create forms on the plane of the mind which is technically called the Fifth Subplane of the Cosmic Physical. The Solar Angels are called Agnishvattas, but is every Agnishvatta a Solar Angel? Not in the way the average seeker understands the work of the Solar Angel, but the terms are pretty much interchangeable.

In a previous system the Agnishvattas passed through the human form and now exist as one of three groups according to DK

The Buddhas or Lords of Activity.

The Buddhas or Lords of Compassionate Love.

The Buddhas of Sacrifice, of Whom the Lord of the World is, to man, the best known exponent.

These great lives create the forms of their own mental substance that are vehicles for expression of our own consciousness. They create the egoic lotus which expands and unfolds as we progress in consciousness.

To put it quite simply the Agnishvattas could be called our “mothers in heaven.” They give birth to our own consciousness by creating organized mind out of their own substance.

Key Statements DK made about Agnishvattas

“This fifth Hierarchy of Agnishvattas in their many grades embody the “I principle” and are the producers of self-consciousness, and the builders of man’s body of realisation. In time and space, and on the mental plane, they are Man himself in essential essence; they enable him to build his own body of causes, to unfold his own egoic lotus, and gradually to free himself from the limitations of the form which he has constructed, and thus to put himself—in due course of time—into the line of another type of energy, that of buddhi.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire Pg 703

“That Son of Mind, which we call the Ego or Soul. This is the intelligence principle, and is called by many names in the esoteric literature, such as the Solar Angel, the Agnishvattas, the Christ principle, etc. With this, religion in the past has professed to deal.” Education in the New Age Pg 5

“The Agnishvattas are the builders on the fifth or gaseous subplane of the cosmic physical, and—from the human standpoint—are the most profoundly important, for they are the builders of the body of consciousness per se. From the psychic standpoint of occult physiology, they have a close connection with the physical brain, the seat or empire of the Thinker.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire Pg 635

“We start here upon the consideration of the Agnishvattas, or the Fire devas of the mental plane, and are thus launched upon the most stupendous subject in connection with our planetary evolution; it is the one having the most occult significance for man, for these solar Angels concern his own essential nature, and are also the creative power by which he works.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire Pg 680

“Where man is concerned these solar Angels, the Agnishvattas, produce the union of the spiritual Triad, or divine Self, and the Quaternary, or lower self. Where the Logos is concerned, whether solar or planetary, they produce conditions whereby the etheric, and the dense physical become a unit. They represent a peculiar type of electrical force; their work is to blend and fuse, and above all else they are the “transmuting fires” of the system, and are those agents who pass the life of God through their bodies of flame as it descends from the higher into the lower, and again as it ascends from the lower into the higher.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire Pg 698

“We leave now the consideration of self-consciousness, as it is produced through the medium of the particular type of deva substance which the Agnishvattas provided for the body of the Ego, and pass on to the study of incarnation, cosmic, planetary and human.” Treatise on Cosmic Fire Pg 732

You have learned something. That always feels at first as if you had lost something. – George Bernard Shaw

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What Are Devas?

May 15, 2025 Joseph Dewey

What Are Devas?

Question: Can we explore words that are commonly used in the Bailey writings?

JJ: Actually, we are doing that now. The first four words; Deva, Agnichaitans, Agnisuryans and Agnishvattas are very interrelated. The plan is to proceed in basic alphabetical order but digress as needed to examine key words related to the word in progress or of group interest.

As we proceed in this dictionary I do not want to examine the meaning in great depth as this would make the dictionary very large and take us ages to get through it. On the other hand, we will examine fewer, but important, words, but with more depth than a standard esoteric dictionary.

The basic purpose of the dictionary will be to give the DK/AAB reader an understandable definition as well as helpful background information. We’ll expand some on each word, but not to the fullest extent.

Here’s the definition for a very key word .

Devas

Definition: These beings are sometimes called members of the angel kingdom and sometimes called agents of the creative mind of God which go forth to do His Will in building all form in the universe.

Even though Devas do not live in the dense physical they create the network wherein the form develops. They do this from the etheric, astral and mental worlds.

There are greater and lesser Devas sometimes called the greater and lesser builders. Many of the greater are considered angels on the evolutionary arc and have passed through the human kingdom. The lesser builders are often called elementals and are on the involutionary arc. These create all physical form that we see about us.

Simply put we could say this. Non physical beings that do not presently incarnate into dense physical bodies are Devas.

Humans are polarized in the male energy and Devas the female. There are 300 billion greater Devas for this earth.

Key Statements DK Made About Devas

“It might here be well to point out that, working as members of that Hierarchy are a great number of beings called angels by the Christian, and devas by the oriental. Many of them have passed through the human stage long ages ago, and work now in the ranks of the great evolution parallel to the human, and which is called the deva evolution.” Initiation Human and Solar, Pg 36

“The devas, with the exception of those greater devas who have in earlier cycles passed through the human kingdom and are now co-operating in the evolution of man, are not as yet self-conscious. They grow and develop through feeling and not through the power of conscious thought…The devas follow the line of least resistance, and seek to appropriate and experience in fullest tide of feeling and sentiency the vibration of things as they are. Therefore the method for them is an ever-increasing intensity of appreciation for the feeling of the moment.” Initiation Human and Solar, Pg 97

“The devas who are the sumtotal of the energy of substance itself care not what form they build.” TCF, Page 951

“The devas of the ethers carry on their foreheads a translucent symbol in the form of a crescent moon, and by this they may be distinguished from the astral devas by those able to see clairvoyantly.

“As we consider the devas of the ethers, we find that they fall naturally—as far as manifestation is concerned—into two main groups. Each group is represented on each of the four subplanes, and this grouping must be considered as but one method of differentiation out of the many possible. These groups are, first, those devas who are the transmitters of prana to all forms of life; they are a group of intermediary devas, and may be regarded as the energy providers in their various differentiations; secondly, those devas who form the etheric bodies of every form in manifestation. These constitute the bulk of the lesser devas.” TCF, Pg 915

“A beautiful diamond, a stately tree, or a fish in the water are but devas after all. It is the recognition of this essential livingness which constitutes the basic fact in all occult investigation, and is the secret of all beneficent magic.” TCF, Pg 892

“The deva evolution is feminine, negative and receptive, the human evolution is masculine, positive and aggressive.” A Learning Experience; Mary Bailey, Pg 49

“The devas do not suffer pain as does mankind. Their rate of rhythm is steadier although in line with the Law. They learn through application to the work of building and through incorporation into the form of that which is built. They grow through appreciation of and joy in the forms built and the work accomplished.” A Treatise on White Magic, Pages 532-533

“Through rites and ceremonies you can sense the devas and reach them, but not in the same manner nor for the same reason that you can the elementals. The devas attend ceremonies freely and are not summoned; they come, as you do, to tap the power. When your vibrations are pure enough the ceremonies serve as a common meeting-ground… Speech, as we know it, is not understood by the devas, but impulses, forces, vibrations can be set up by the use of specific forms that lead to the desired result and obviate the need of speech. These forms open the avenues of mutual comprehension.” Letters on Occult Meditation, Pg 176

“The angels and devas are to the vegetable kingdom what the spiritual Hierarchy is to humanity. This is, of course, a mystery with which you have no concern.” Telepathy and the Etheric Vehicle, Page 79

“Wherever attention is centred on the form and not on the Spirit, the tendency is to deva worship, deva contact and black magic, for the form is made of deva substance on all planes.

“This must be considered well in connection with every form for it holds the key to many mysteries.” TCF, Page 491

“It would interest us much could we but understand a little of the point of view of those great devas Who co-operate intelligently in the plan of evolution. They have Their own method of expressing these ideas, the medium being colour which can be heard, and sound which can be seen. Man reverses the process and sees colors and hears sounds. A hint lies here as to the necessity for symbols, for they are signs which convey cosmic truths, and instruction, and can be comprehended alike by the evolved of both evolutions.” TCF, Page 666

“The goal for the devas (below the rank of solar Pitris) is individualisation, and their objective is to become men in some future cycle.” TCF, Page 836

Men would be angels; angels would be gods. – Alexander Pope

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Esoteric Words

May 14, 2025 Joseph Dewey

Esoteric Words

One of the biggest problems in understanding the Alice A. Bailey writings is the strange vocabulary. For a first-time reader sitting down to enjoy the writings this can seem like an overwhelming obstacle. At first, they seem more complex than understanding a medical journal.

I am therefore initiating a new project that will probably last for years and that is going through DK’s writings and perhaps some others and finding, defining and hopefully understanding certain words. We’ll then take the best of the definitions and eventually compile our own dictionary.

That said, here is the first word: Agnichaitans

So, where do you look for understanding?

First, if you have the text of the Alice A. Bailey books do a search there first. If you have them downloaded on your computer this will prove very useful.

Secondly, you can Google the word.

Thirdly, there are several online esoteric dictionaries. Here are the address for three of them:

Dictionary 1

Dictionary 2

Dictionary 3

Here are things to look for:

Obviously, the meaning of the word.

Any interesting applications for the word.

Words, phrases and principles in relation to the word that need to be understood, especially as it applies to the AAB writings.

A reader gives this definition and comment: “The Agnichaitans are builders in our physical world and their work can visibly be seen in the growth of crystals and mineral forms.”

“How is it they are the builders? From what science tells us, our physical world is built upon atoms and molecules. These particles bond to other atoms and molecules based on electrical charge, compatible atomic configurations, and many other variables I don’t have the knowledge to expand upon.”

JJ: Science observes what happens when crystals are formed and they describe what they observe but they do not fully understand what causes that which they observe. Tiny lives that operate like complex computer programs guide the creation of all form whether it be a mineral, a plant or a human body.

Fire is at the heart of all life and the Agnichaitans work at the most intense point of all fires and build creatively with fire in the bowels of the earth.

The reader continues:

“[The Agnichaitans] are influenced through sound and can be guided by the adepts toward what is considered magical work.”

“Can you give an example of this ‘magical work’ that is something science is unable to do with its knowledge of manipulation of atoms and/or molecules?”

JJ: Spiritual healing involves the use of the Agnichaitans. When a yogi slows his heart rate and can make himself to appear lifeless, he puts them to sleep. When we speak in everyday life we will influence them to a small degree depending on the feeling and intent behind our words. Adepts on the Left and Right use words of power to direct them, but few of these are in any book.

Reader: “Would you please expand upon what ‘originating point of fire’ means.”

JJ: When you strike a match it does not light unless an originating point of fire is created. Once the match is lit this point of fire remains and will be the last point remaining when the match goes out as long as the fuel remains.

This originating point is the life-giving heart of an Agnichaitan which incarnates into the fire. If an Adept can speak their language he could then control fire.

Reader: “Also, what is meant by ‘this energy of fire is the power that creates the physical activity necessary to move creation forward.”

JJ: Nothing happens without motion and fire is merely very intense motion. The Agnichaitans are the power that causes motion on the physical plane. Motion that does not seem to be fire from our perspective is fire from a higher perspective that sees time from a different reference.

Reader: “How many Agnichaitans do we have in our physical body?”

JJ: Countless numbers in different grades which are a reflection of one greater life.

Reader: “Where inside us do they live?”

JJ: They live in etheric matter. Ask yourself where electricity lives within you and you will have your answer.

Reader: “If I want a healthier, more usable and long-lasting body, I just eat right, take vitamins, and work-out. What is this process you speak of by which we can have the same thing by influencing these Devas with our thoughts? What are the steps of this process? How is this process different than what I currently do?”

JJ: When you eat good food and take vitamins you are providing prana for the Agnichaitans that they will take to the fires in your body. You can also influence them positively with soothing sounds, music and speech. The sense of smell also drives them.

The Agnichaitans are strongly influenced by the higher devas of the astral — the Agnisuryans, and the mental — the Agnishvattas which we will cover shortly.

Be silent, or let thy words be worth more than silence. Pythagoras

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Loving Relationships, Part 7

May 12, 2025 Joseph Dewey

Loving Relationships, Part 7
Touching the Soul

Audience: “My experience with what I think of as intuition is intuition is the fault process of communication and learning. We learn things most commonly by rote. It seems like to me that when you experience intuition you get the whole picture at once then you verbalize it then add everything else into it. It’s like going backwards from the normal way.”

JJ: It is backwards from the normal way. Basically, to discover a person’s evolution you want to look for a number of things. You want to look for how much love he or she radiates. If he contacts the soul, he contacts pure love energy. There is something higher than soul and that is the Monad. For practical purposes we won’t even go into this because we want to get to the soul before we get to the Monad. The Monad is the projector of purpose. This is different from how we usually think. Purpose is aligning the person in harmony with the divine will. First of all, before we can even glimpse what the purpose is, we must contact the soul. The soul is a stepping stone to the Monad which projects purpose.

Why am I talking about this when our topic is relationships? Before anyone can have a really beautiful relationship, the soul must be contacted in yourself. When it’s contacted in yourself, you’ll be able to see the soul in others. When you see it contacted in yourself then you see it in others, there will be a love between you and that person. This will demand a response.

If the person is under a feel-good state of illusion, the response will often be hard to reach. But if the love energy goes out to the person, and stimulates the soul and the love energy then comes back then contact is made. A good example of this that everyone is aware of in this room is the act of making love. In the Bible it says, “This is eternal life that ye shall know God.” The word for” know” is the same word used for sex in the Bible. All throughout the Bible, the word, “know” is used for the sex act. Somebody knew somebody and he or she begat somebody else.

It says it’s eternal life to know God. Why are the same words used? It’s used because at the highest level of sex, when the climax is reached, you have a breaking of the veil between the two people so there is a knowing of the person’s soul. That’s why it feels so great, because it’s an actual knowing of God. It only lasts a short period of time.

Wayne: “Is that why we cry, ‘Oh God!”? (Laughter)”

JJ: When you’re making love and approaching that divine moment, has anyone ever been able to feel anger toward anyone? Or dislike toward the other person? It’s almost impossible. Try it sometime. When you’re in that state of approaching climax, try to hate anyone. It’s impossible. Even though you may have had a big fight and were throwing furniture around moments before, when you’re in the act and approaching that moment there’s only peace and love. It’s because you’ve penetrated the soul. The two have become one and unity is what produces soul contact. It’s a physical unity but it still produces some flow of energy from the soul. It is an octave lower than contact with the mind, but it is still a form of soul energy.

Audience: “Is that a point of tension that gets reached?”

JJ: Right, that’s a point of tension and this is soul energy coming down. It’s on a physical level. Sexual climax is the one that everyone is familiar with and it is actually a divine energy. It’s the first contact with soul energy that most of us feel. The second one is the born-again experience.

Audience: “Why doesn’t it last?”

JJ: That’s because the soul is no longer in contact. The soul has to be in contact in order for this to be felt. When there is complete soul contact then you will almost always be in a state of euphoria. You will feel really good all the time. When there is complete soul contact and the illusions have all been broken through it will not go away though the intensity will be cyclic due to the attention we have to give to normal life. You’ll be in a state that feels similar to the sexual climax all the time but on a more refined level. Wouldn’t that be nice? Think back to this statement again. In this divine moment when you have achieved some soul energy down flow, in the sexual climax, have you ever felt any anger?

Audience: “It doesn’t last long enough.”

JJ: Right, when it’s over the anger might reappear but not actually at that moment. That’s why when we contact the soul, it’s the same thing. You cannot hate anybody. You only feel love because you pass beyond the illusion. When you hate somebody, you hate something that doesn’t exist. When you contact the soul, you contact something that does exist and is real and it’s impossible to feel any disturbance of peace. Isn’t that a great teaching?

Wayne: “I could get off on that (Laughter).”

JJ: Sexual climax is something that everyone can identify with. The higher levels of soul contact are not things that everyone can identify with. There is a handful who have felt some inflow of soul energy. Most of you in this room have felt it in one degree or another. When you feel the soul energy it feels really great. Would you say it felt even better than a sexual climax? Doesn’t it feel better? Have you ever felt anything that felt better?

Wayne: “So if you’re premature you’re a little more spiritual or what? (Laughter)”

JJ: This is probably the strangest approach anyone ever heard of for establishing relationships but it is one that will work. What’s the normal approach? They say you have to treat your partner really good and buy flowers. I bought flowers but that does not necessarily avoid an argument. When you reach soul contact, you can do it. I remember the first argument we ever had. I thought soul contact had to be reached so what did I tell you about it?

Artie: “You taught me to tell you I love you three times.”

JJ: I had her look in my eyes and tell me she loves me three times. It takes more effort to do that now, but when we first fell in love we’d do about anything. The first time she says I love you and I say, say it again with greater feeling. So she mumbles I love you again, and I say with more feeling. By the time she says it a third time, she forgets what she is angry about. All of a sudden negativity just disappears. The soul was touched.

That’s a good way to dissolve an argument. Look in each other’s eyes and with feeling, pretend that you’re an actor if you have to, send out your love. You have to do that. Say I love you three times. Each of you say it to each other. All of a sudden you don’t need a winner of the argument, you don’t need to resolve the problem, you don’t need to decide what color to paint the walls. All of a sudden you just feel good with each other. Energy follows thought. You have to think I love you more than say it. When you say it and say it like you mean it, all of a sudden, the energy follows thought and the love returns. The same thing if you don’t feel like being affectionate, be affectionate and energy will follow thought.

So the soul has to be reached. We have all these veils of illusion around us. If the solution is so simple, why don’t we do it? When you’re really angry why is it hard to say I love you? It’s almost like a person says, “I’m angry and I’m happy to be angry. I’m unhappy and I’m happy to be unhappy.” It’s really difficult to break through that.

The only way to break through is by the exercise of will. I’m going to tell a nasty secret about the energy of love. People have a very ephemeral view about love. They feel like love is something that is sometimes there and sometimes not there. It’s mystical. When it’s not there there’s nothing you can do about it, it’s just not there. You have to wait for the fight to blow over, the winds to cool down then maybe a few days later, love will return. So you just have to wait for love to show up. Or you have to wait to find the right one that you can love. You have to just wait around then like magic, out of the blue, here comes love. Is that how love works? That’s what people seem to think, isn’t it?

Audience: “What I can’t understand is that you’re talking about the love coming from the soul and where is the romantic love coming from? Where do you get the category of romantic energy?”

JJ: We’ll go into that in a minute. So we have this love energy that seems so mystical and magical but if it is an energy like electricity then it can be turned on and off. If love is an energy we can do everything with love that we can do with lights. We can turn it down halfway, or way down so you can barely see it, or all the way off, or up to very bright. How can we do that? Can we do that with anybody?

Love is an energy and it can be manifested by an exercise of will. If you’re in an intense battle with your mate or your best friend and you feel very bitter feelings and you want to hate him instead of loving, by an exercise of will you can turn it off or on. The energy of love is the great lesson. Two people, once they learn to turn it on can turn it off or on at will. Love never needs to be gone unless they turn it off at will. It feels so good, why on Earth would anyone in his or her right mind not want it around? It feels so great. Has everyone in here been in love with somebody? It feels so great, who wants it to go away? I know I don’t, it feels really wonderful. Once we understand the will, we can make it come back anytime. We can keep it.

Audience: “It’s a lot easier to get it to come back when you get rid of all the garbage, the anger, bitterness, the things that get in the way. Once you get rid of that it’s like the cup in the story, it overflows if you don’t get rid of some stuff so there’s room for the new stuff. To be able to accept love, you need to empty your cup of all the garbage.”

JJ: The key is to look beyond the garbage, for if we look for the negative it will always be there, for none of us are perfect. Look beyond the imperfection to the perfection of the soul and the imperfect will fade away.

We’ll end on that note.

I make the most of all that comes and the least of all that goes. – Sara Teasdale

Oct 14, 2009

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Loving Relationships, Part 6

May 11, 2025 Joseph Dewey

Loving Relationships, Part 6
Overcoming Illusion

JJ: Then the next step up is overcoming illusion. In overcoming illusion you have to trace back to the foundation of all your beliefs. Find out where all your beliefs got screwed up at. For instance, let’s say that I have a foundation belief that man is inherently evil. All my branch beliefs may be entirely logical, without flaw. I can think like Dr. Spock on Star Trek and trace everything back to the root belief that man is inherently evil and be entirely logical. There’s no reason why it should be wrong. But the man who penetrates the last layer or veil has to go back and trace all his illusions clear back to the root belief. It’s really hard for us to face these.

From the time that we first begin to learn, we are 100% convinced that we are correct. So we have to become as a little child and go back to our root beliefs and see what is actually the matter with us. One of the things that causes us to do that is what?

Anybody want to guess? You probably won’t guess so I’ll write it down. Pain. Why pain? Whenever you receive pain of any kind, physical, emotional, or mental, it only means one thing. You’re not following the impulses of the soul. When we refuse to follow the impulses of our soul, we get pain. When our root beliefs are not working, eventually great pain is produced. The pain keeps increasing and the squeeze gets tighter and tighter until we are practically forced to look at our beliefs and say, what in the world is the matter with this. Picking on you Artie, I know that you spent the first half of your life totally disassociated with metaphysics. Something caused you to begin to look further. Did pain have anything to do with it?

Artie: “Yeah, I got to a point where I didn’t understand my purpose, I didn’t enjoy being around people particularly, after a point of depression where I don’t understand why I’m here, I don’t understand why I can’t get away from people, why I can’t feel a joy, I certainly didn’t feel it in church. So I couldn’t figure out what was missing. Like a big void, a big hole, that needed to be filled and I got to a point where there had to be more.”

JJ: Anybody else have any pain that forced him or her to look? Curt, you look like you did.

Curt: “Before metaphysics, I asked the same questions Artie did. That’s when I started writing and broadened my view.”

JJ: When a person really begins to look and evolve toward his soul, it becomes really joyful. When you don’t, then eventually you’re practically forced to. In my life I went through quite a bit of pain that forced me to really start looking. Anyone else?

Audience: “I went through a phase where I perceived I should be doing something I wasn’t.”

JJ: If you go someplace you know you aren’t supposed to, then you really feel pain.

Audience: “I hear you talking and something came to mind that happened awhile back and I think it’s true. Your subconscious and your super conscious, when you’re listening to somebody like Joe talk, if you cross anything you won’t be nearly as receptive. Earlier Wayne had the perfect receptive form, as far as I’m concerned, he was really listening. Then when he heard something he’d heard before it was like he wasn’t going to listen again. I’ve had these experiences the past 5 or 6 years. When I want to hear something I have to consciously put attention on it.

“It’s true, I’ve been at discussion and noticed I had my arms folded and thought unfold the arms so you can be more open.”

JJ: Moving along here. What does it feel like when you do finally reach the soul. You get a nice warm feeling and have the born again emotional energy opened up. Then we have the mental energy opened up, then the intuitional or the soul energy opens up. What does it actually feel like? Has anyone ever felt it? I know Diane felt it one time. Will you tell us what it felt like, Diane? I’d asked Diane to tell if these particular ideas on relationships felt true.

Diane: “I never felt anything like this before. I’d asked Joe how I was supposed to pray. He said to just ask if the teachings were true. Then I just tried to make my mind go blank and see what would happen. This really warm feeling overcame me. It kept getting warmer and warmer and definitely felt like it was an answer. It felt very good and peaceful. Then I started thinking how high is this going to get? That was it. It stopped me.”

JJ: Has anyone else had particular feelings from the soul? You got your answer about the same time, didn’t you? Did it feel about the same?

Audience: “A lot the same. It felt a lot like vibrating.”

JJ: Probably the closest word to describe it is a dissolving feeling. It almost feels like you’re going to disintegrate. The reason it feels dissolving is that if you were to entirely escape illusion, you would actually disappear, you would dissolve. The whole physical world is made of illusion. It’s made of the principle of two, the positive and negative energies vibrate and create the whole universe. When we reach a point of oneness we reach the point where there isn’t two but one then all the physical world would disappear if you were in perfect contact with the soul. If that happened we wouldn’t have this group here tonight. You want to savor each moment in approaching that.

Audience: “We have work we want to accomplish before we do that, we want to work together and if we’re zapping off individually we won’t be here to do that.”

JJ: I’ve been to seminars where they teach about these worlds. There are other worlds and usually it takes about a thousand lifetimes to get up here and another thousand to get there. They say this secret means of soul travel is the only means how you can just zap up there in one lifetime. What they don’t realize is that we came here for a purpose. We didn’t come here just to go back home immediately. When you go on a vacation or to school and it takes four years of school then you graduate then you go and quit and go back home. If you do not finish what you came to do ten you’ll be a lot worse off then the guy who stayed all four years and learned all he was supposed to learn. The important thing is to accept where we are. Let’s learn our lessons and graduate as we’re supposed to instead of wanting to escape in one life. The escapists in the early Christian church eliminated every mention of reincarnation in the Bible and decided to have salvation all in one big jump. A lot of the new age people are still trying to do it in one big jump. We don’t want to do it in one big jump, we want to savor the experience.

In your last lifetime, you review all your lifetimes. You have perfect memory of them all and you go through a state of meditation where you review everything. So unless you’ve done that, you aren’t on your last lifetime.

Audience: “I joined the Eckankar group a few years ago and I’d hope to find there what I have found in this group. Those people are so unevolved as I look back on it, and even at the time, I have since moved on. The leader they had taught me nothing. He had not the slightest perception of what the people in his group were. How can you tell how evolved a person is?”

JJ: It’s a difficult thing to tell. That’s why we should reserve judgment. If you think you’re highly evolved, it’s best to not mention it to anybody. If someone else is lower evolved, it’s best to not mention it.

Audience: “I mean, when you have someone who is trying to lead you through a path that you’ve already gone through and he does this week after week and it never occurs to him that maybe you have already been through it, I would say that maybe he is lacking there.

“Why didn’t you say that if it’s how you felt?

“Well because I kept thinking maybe this is an illusion I’m going through and if I keep trying maybe it will show up.”

Even the cry from the depths is an affirmation: Why cry if there is no hint or hope of hearing? – Martin Marty

Oct 11, 2009

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Loving Relationships, Part 5

May 10, 2025 Joseph Dewey

Loving Relationships, Part 5
The Point of Tension

JJ: I’m going to surprise a lot of people today because I bet there are a lot of people out there who do not know how to have a loving relationship. On the other hand, it might be a disappointment because they really don’t seem that interested in loving relationships, especially when you hear them talk about their spouses as old man, old lady, son of a bitch etc. People don’t seem to put a lot of energy into really loving their spouse.

Audience: “Were you aware that Eckankar was on Saturday night?”

JJ: Are you aware of the topic he spoke on? At least it’s not competing with a loving relationship. We’re going to talk about this book (A Course in Miracles) for just a short period of time tonight. If you’re going to take any course in a decent loving relationship, this is the book. Why is this Artie? What does this have to do with a loving relationship?

Artie: “It talks about putting your ego aside and communicating soul to soul. This is what you need to do in a loving relationship.”

JJ: Why is communicating soul to soul so important in a loving relationship?

Artie: “Because a person is divine when you look at their soul.”

JJ: And how is a person divine?

Artie: “In reality this person is divine, this person is God, the person is light, love, power.”

JJ: If you hate a person or dislike a person, according to the Course in Miracles, are you hating something that is real or not real?

Artie: “You’re seeing their personality and their personality is not real.”

JJ: Okay, so they hate something that isn’t real. Whenever you dislike somebody or have a fight with your spouse, either one or both of you are angry over something that does not really exist. Is everyone thoroughly confused? So, if we’re angry over what is not, what is? Therefore, is you see the real thing within the person, what do you see?

Audience: “You see love.”

JJ: What do you feel?

Audience: “You feel love.”

JJ: Look at Mike here and look at his soul. What do you see?

Audience: “Love!”

JJ: That’s right. Anybody that you look at and look beyond that which is not real, you will see love. Really, to produce a loving relationship, that is all there is to it. Learn that one principle and you’ll never have arguments. You may have a debate but you will never have hurt feelings again. For the rest of your life, you will never be hurt, as long as you see what is real. Whenever you dislike somebody and have a feeling or grudge against them, you are feeling a dislike for something that does not even exist. It’s unbelievable, isn’t it?

Audience: “And it’s a reflection, what you dislike in others is what you dislike in yourself. You’re projecting that trait of the personality on the other.”

JJ: I’ve followed a number of people throughout my life. I’ve watched my friends and listen to their truisms. Then as I watch them get older I find that what they criticized others for being, they become themselves. One friend of mine wouldn’t go out with any girl who was even a couple pounds overweight. He kept criticizing anyone who was overweight and now this person is overweight. It’s not me, by the way. (Laughter) I ran into a person about a week ago who was always 145 pounds and now is about 180.

Audience: “Don’t criticize it or you’ll put some on too.”

JJ: What we see in others is really a reflection of ourselves because who created the world that we are in? We create our world. You’re here right now because this is part of your creation.

Audience: “Do you mean we create our own reality and agree to it?”

JJ: You chose to come to this meeting. You didn’t necessarily create me but you were helping in creating the situation that you are in where I am present. So you have come to this meeting and you have helped create the atmosphere.

Here we are approaching the soul and seeking to dispel the illusions obstructing it. The Course in Miracles doesn’t talk about if there are veils or illusions. The Course tries to get you through all the veils in one giant step. The whole course is designed to get you there. The problem is that many think they’re already there. I can hardly find anybody who doesn’t think they’re centered right in the soul.

Religious people tell us that Jesus is right there in the their heart. The Born Againers might think they’re seeing Jesus face to face. Rebirth has become a new age word and born again produces a very similar experience. The experience is very much the same but we have these illusions we have to get through to get to the soul. This is a very important principle.

The average man has not broken through any of them. The average person has not been born again, has not had that rebirth, and has not had any particular spiritual experience in his life. Then he begins to get a little bit more evolved than the average and begins to think there has to be more than just drinking, getting married, making a living, etc. He begins to look and he reaches a crisis point that’s called the point of tension.

You cannot break through one of these veils unless you create a point of tension. The point of tension is created by an inflow of energy over a period of time. These veils of illusion have to be broken through by creating this point. On the surface of water, we have a tension on the water itself. You cannot even penetrate water itself unless you penetrate that tension. You can put a steel needle on top of the water and it will float because of the tension of the water. Once it breaks through it will sink. Has everybody tried that experiment of floating a needle on water? Does everybody believe you can do it?

So this is like the point of tension of water. It takes a force to break through. The force is created by the old mantra, which is energy follows thought.

You have to begin to think. Think about your purpose. The average man will start to think, “I’m not forgiven for my sins, I’ve done a lot of naughty things in my life, maybe I should repent and ask Jesus inside my heart.” He starts thinking. He thinks about this stuff and he thinks and he thinks and he thinks until finally the point of tension is reached. When you pull a rubber band so far and you create the point of tension, it will snap. This is what happens. He creates enough tension until the point of tension is reached and all of a sudden, the barrier of illusion is broken through. When it’s broken he finds a surge of new energy that he never felt before because he went from one energy level into another energy level, closer to the soul.

The man gets Jesus in his heart and boy, does it feel good. He has found his goal. Then he goes around the rest of his life with a bumper sticker that says “I found it”. He found this energy right here and it feels really great. It’s nice and warm and now he’s been born again and he’s saved and he’s going to go live with Jesus in the next world and all this stuff.

What he doesn’t realize is that he’s confounded. All he’s done is to transfer from one energy level to another. So here he is walking around in this new energy level and he really feels good. He really feels great and he thinks he found it, but this is his problem. Because he thinks he found it, the desire to advance not with him anymore.

He does not look anymore for a number of lifetimes. Not only one lifetime but sometimes there are many times he will think he has found it. Then in a certain lifetime he will create another point of tension and go through it again. He keeps finding this energy level here. He keeps finding that and thinking that is it. In so many of his past lives he’s thought this is it. Is it? He thinks he’s found it but he hasn’t. Then after a while he begins to get frustrated because finding it hasn’t really completely satisfied him.

After he spends a number of lifetimes having found it he finds out that he hasn’t found it. Then he starts to look again. He begins to look again and begins to think. Instead of just emotionally this time with feeling, he begins to think and open up his mind. Once his mind opens up, he finds a computer programmer in there that’s asleep.

When this computer programmer wakes up, then he goes into the next level. He has a higher inflow of spiritual energy. People will go on a mission and say I found it and the born-again Christian will say I found it but he will really begin to find something greater than the born-again Christian. He’ll try to explain it to them and the born-again Christian will say, ‘yes, I feel that.’ He will say I have found a higher energy level but the born-again Christian will say, “I have found the highest, Jesus”. If you think you found the highest, then we found the same thing. So they’ll argue back and forth. This guy will try to explain it to his fellow born-againers, the higher energy level he’s found. They will just think he’s where they are because there’s nothing higher than the person who’s found Jesus. So this man will be somewhat frustrated for the higher you get up here the more alone you are because there’s fewer people to share it with.

“Anything you fully do is an alone journey.” – Natalie Goldberg

Oct 11, 2009

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Loving Relationships, Part 4

May 9, 2025 Joseph Dewey

Loving Relationships, Part 4
Honest Communication

Audience: “You give examples but I’m talking about a wife who cackles and a guy who snores. They’re not forcing each other to look at the soul. They’re just saying hey you’re really irritating me with your habit. They bicker back and forth. How are they forcing soul contact?”

JJ: You’re talking about a habit like snoring that you can’t do anything about. Even so, if the snoring bothers you it is best to communicate your feelings on it while ceasing to blame him as if he is irritating you on purpose. With something like this you can look upon it as a mutual problem and look for the best solution available.

Then there are other things that you can do something about. If the food is bad you don’t need to say anything unless you need to clear your feelings. Maybe the eggs were burned 10 times in a row and you know the person can do better and should be told. Express your feelings. Don’t react but tell how you feel. That’s the important thing. Being honest isn’t going out and criticizing everybody. It’s means relating how you feel when the need is there.

“It makes me feel bad that I know you can cook a lot better than this and you don’t. It makes me feel that you don’t really care how you feel about me.” This is demanding a response. She thinks, do I care about him or not? If I do care about him let’s see what I can do about this. She’s following her soul. If she’s not, she thinks I’m glad you don’t like it. I’m glad you’re choking on that piece of meat. You deserve it. You didn’t fix the sink yesterday when I told you to, so you deserve this. So subconsciously she didn’t fix good food because of her feelings which now come out.

Then when you get the feelings out in the open you end up making love an hour or two later. It’s all out and everything is better. But getting out the things from the hurt feelings in the important thing.

Remember, don’t criticize but share your feelings. That will help the other person share his feelings. Sharing feelings honestly demands a response from either the soul or the personality. The person you share your feelings with has to decide on whether to go by one or the other. So it does demand a response, always. The person will either respond from the personality of the soul. If he responds from the soul the damage goes back and forth like a ball. The ball bounces this high once, then this high then pretty soon it doesn’t bounce anymore. This is what the negative energy does when the response is from soul. It bounces back and forth until the negative energy is now gone. Then you’ll feel great.

Did you ever notice in personality relationships that if you don’t have a good fight every now that it kind of stagnates? Then you have a really good fight and let out all the energies of the hurt feelings and you feel really great afterwards. When all the hurt feelings get out and they are shared by the energy of the soul and they’re responded to on the soul level, then there will be peace. Until eventually you won’t have any more problems. Eventually you will be in a state of peace.

Audience: “If you had been doing the no denial and no deception in the first place none of this would happen.”

JJ: You’re right.

Audience: “I think you’re painting a clear picture on the idea but I don’t think everyone has those same responses you’ve been describing.”

JJ: Not everybody tries to respond from the soul.

Audience: “That’s not what I’m referring to. I’m referring to the occasional fight to clear the air. That’s not what everybody would do or want to do. That’s not the only way to clear the air.”

JJ: You don’t have to have an occasional fight if the two people consistently respond from the soul level. Sometimes a fight will stimulate a response from the soul level if you reach a point of tension where they say I don’t like this at all and reach for the soul.

Audience: “Sometimes we say things that the other person never needed to hear and that stays with you forever if you say something in anger that you shouldn’t have said.”

JJ: When you show your feelings you shouldn’t be doing it in anger, but you are right we need to avoid insults that cause long lasting emotional harm. I’m not teaching anger here, I’m teaching non-denial. If you have hurt feelings you shouldn’t share them with anger.

Audience: “You said if you blow up and have a fight.”

JJ: I’m not saying you’re supposed to blow up and have a fight. I’m saying having the fight and releasing the feelings is better than not releasing them at all. At least they’re released. I’m not teaching that you’re supposed to go out and have a fight. Having the fight at least brings out the feelings so you understand that the other person was hurt. You have to understand that the other person was hurt.

If you are hurt, you have to decide how you are going to release it. You can say, I am hurt but you just had a rotten day and you don’t understand so I’ll tell you about it. Then you respond and it’s over. If I feel bad and don’t tell you then the next time you come to me I’ll still have those feelings. If we feel something it has to be communicated for what it is. If we pretend all is well it’s a deception and deception leads us further into illusion so we cannot communicate soul to soul.

A sense of humor can help you overlook the unattractive, tolerate the unpleasant, cope with the unexpected, and smile through the unbearable. – Moshe Waldoks

Oct 5, 2009

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