Chapter Twenty-Three
The Male-Female Relationship

The first step to creating the Human Molecule is to stabilize the male-female relationship whether it be through marriage or another type of agreed-upon union.

The prime cause of disharmony in relationships has not been realized among humanity. It has little to do with personality, education, background, or other obvious factors. It has to do with energy. Male and female must be looked upon as energy units of opposite charge, just as are electrons and protons that create the balanced atom.

To create balance, we must understand the purpose of the two energies. The male, or the positive energy, is radiant, action, or sending energy. The female, or negative energy (not negative as in bad, but negative as in energy) is magnetic, attractive, and receiving.

This is most easily demonstrated in the physical bodies of the two sexes. It helps here if we remember that all physical creations are symbolic of spiritual energies as well as their outward manifestation.

During sex, the male body is the sender of the seed or sperm. With each orgasm many sperm are sent. The male genitals are undisputedly the sending unit. The female body, on the other hand, is the receiver of the sperm or seed and the female genitals definitely receive the males. Only one out of millions of sperm is finally accepted for impregnation, but when it is, the growth of the baby or new creation is an automatic process. The materials for the growth of the body are drawn to the woman by the power of magnetism, which is an aspect of female energy.

By taking what we know to be true here, we can correspond it to other areas and discover much truth. If the male is physically the sender and the female the receiver, then this will correspond to male and female energy on other levels. We can say then, that as energy units the male, or positive energy, is the sender, and the female, or negative energy, is the receiver.

There are only two observable energies in the Universe. They are called by many names, but each of them is either male or female. For instance, the two energies that sustain the Universe are radiance and magnetism. In using the term magnetism I am referring to all forces which pull form together toward a certain center. This would definitely include gravity. The Sun and the stars give off light, heat and radiation that give life to and sustain all things. This is an important function but no more important than magnetism and gravity that give form to all things and holds all creation together. Magnetic energy, such as gravity, is invisible, but its effect is just as powerful as radiance, which is visible. There would be no form to give off radiation without magnetism to create the form.

Because the female energy, or magnetism, is invisible, its full importance has often been overlooked. One of the reasons the male energy has dominated in recent times is that it is a more visible energy. Even females are deceived into thinking that radiant energy is more desirable than magnetic because the use of this energy is easier to perceive.

The feminine energy is indeed a mystique, or mystery, because its effects can be seen, but the operation of the energy cannot.

Another aspect of male-female energy is involution and evolution. Involution is the force that pulls spirit into matter, or the world of experience. Evolution is the force that pulls matter back up to the realm of spirit after a round of experience is over. Involution is female energy and evolution is male. In the early days of humanity when the prime goal was experience, the female energy dominated. Desire, emotion, and feeling are also female energies and always push us toward experience. The Biblical Eve dominated Adam with her desire for the forbidden experience. The yielding of Adam to Eve was symbolic of the time of involution, or the dominance of female energy.

Mind is a male energy which, in the cycle of evolution, is meant to dominate the female emotions in us all, intelligently direct us to avoid painful experiences and lead us from matter to spirit.

After the time of Atlantis, there was a shift in the polarization of humankind from involution to evolution. Men no longer worshipped the goddesses, but switched to male gods. In Atlantis the Masters of Light and the Dark Brothers walked among men and gave them their knowledge, but in this current age there exists a firm decree that the lost knowledge must be earned by humanity itself by the use of mind and the dominance of mind. Because mind is beginning to dominate the world, and is leading us toward Spirit, the male energy is naturally dominant.

The heavy male dominance is being counterbalanced, however, by the opening of the next faculty in man which is the intuition, which is also feminine. The main point to remember is that in the end both male and female energies will play an equal role in our Becoming..

To create the Molecular Relationship, it is important we thoroughly understand the workings of the male-female energies, for no Molecule, whether human or atomic, can become stable without the correct interplay of energy.

In all male-female relationships the male unit must be polarized in the radiant and sending mode, and the female must be magnetic and receiving, or the energy of the relationship will be out of balance. Let me stress here that all of us have both energies in circulation within us. Males have the female feelings and females have the male mind. The point is that each of us will always have more of one energy than the other

The question of balance is especially true in the human kingdom, for humanity seems to be the only kingdom in nature where it is even possible for the sexes to not play their appropriate roles. In the animal and plant kingdoms the male and female accept their appropriate roles without rebellion.

Few have ever contemplated the reason why we find ourselves in either a male or female body. This is a significant event in the life of the Soul. Do we ever ask: “Why am I male?”, or “Why am I female?” or “What significance does this have to me at this point in time and evolution?” We rarely do this. Instead, we may take the defensive attitude: “I am a female and I am just as good as any male,” or “I am a male and men are the ones that accomplish things in this world,” or “I am a male (or female) and there is no difference between the sexes”

We should be asking: “Why am I the way that I amwhat I am?”

All of us have been both male and female in past lives. If one sex is greater than the other that would mean that we periodically go backwards because we incarnate in both sexes over a period of lifetimes.

Both sexes are equal in value. One cannot exist without the other. Just like there is no such thing as one hand clapping, there is no creation with just one sex. They must work together.

Now we approach the grand purpose of our cyclic movement in and out of the sexes.

We must remember that the female is magnetic and receiving. The male is radiant and sending. Even though we are all polarized in one or the other sex in a particular lifetime, depending on the body we find ourselves in, within each lifetime there are various male and female cycles.

In the first part of each lifetime, we all go through a female cycle. We are in a constant state of receivership. Our parents and relatives are giving to us and we are generally much more emotional, a female aspect. We are also magnetic. We get what we want not by going after it (an aspect of the male energy) but by being cute and loveable and drawing it to ourselves (magnetism). We go to school and receive from teachers (who radiate male energy, tinged with female nurturing energy) for about a dozen years; then (as an adult) we make the shift to the male cycle and we start giving out to the world what we have learned, usually through our vocation. Even here we may go through a lengthy female apprenticeship. The ego usually lives through approximately twenty-nine years of life (the Saturn cycle of astrology) before it will fully transfer to the male energy.

We will then continue in this male cycle of sending energy for another Saturn cycle of about twenty-nine years; then will desire to enter the female energy cycle again and learn or do something new. We may want to go into business for ourselves, which may require us to go through a long learning (female) experience. We may want to go back to school and learn to do something new. Often, though, we will feel dissatisfied with what we have accomplished and feel the need to improve our skills.

Overall, the basic female cycle is dominant the first half of life and the male the second half, even though we make attempts at handling male energy in the first half and periodically revert to female learning in the second half.

In school, females are much better at sitting still and receiving, and generally get better grades because they are polarized in the female (magnetic) energy. In activity, males are more effective at implementing what they have learned and promoting it because they are polarized in the male (radiant) energy. We realize there are exceptions, but as a whole this is true. When either the male or female is acting in their natural inborn energy it is like swimming downstream. When they are out of their energy it is like swimming upstream. If the current is mild, a good swimmer may be able to swim faster upstream than a poor one going downstream. This doesn’t mean, however, the whole batch of us should swim upstream, just because one or two exceptions can do well there. Even the exception can do much better if the swimmer goes with the current.

Some males and some females can do well operating in their opposite’s energy, but they are going against the current. They can always excel to the greatest heights if they go with the current in their own energy, just as any swimmer can attain the greatest speed going downstream.

Each entity goes through both male and female cycles in their evolution. The average person will spend somewhere around seven lives in the female and then seven lives in the male during cycles of 1000+ lifetime adventure. Then near the end of his evolution the cycle may be altered somewhat

There are not hard and fast rules here. The important thing to remember is that life polarization goes in cycles just as do all other things. However, when we escape cyclic karma and find the middle way path, then we reach a position where we may choose the sex we wish to take. We will then incarnate in the sex that will provide the greatest avenue of service for ourselves.

When the average entity first enters the seven life male cycle it will create for itself a male body, but with feminine characteristics. Then, for several lives, the entity will become more polarized in the male energy, ie, more radiant and action-oriented. Finally, at the peak of the cycle he will be very aggressive and masculine. After this, his bodies become more feminine until he crosses the threshold. Then, the entity is born in a female body, but she will be rather masculine and less attractive to men than when she reaches her peak in femininity. Then, after several lives, she becomes more feminine until she reaches the peak of feminine energy. At this point the entity is a very beautiful feminine female and is very magnetic (provided she takes care of her body).

At her highest point in female energy she can attract anything she wants by merely making her wishes known to high-energy men. In a high-energy female body she does not need to lift a finger to attain her desires. She enhances her magnetism by looking as beautiful as possible and radiant men are happy to satisfy her every need. She never needs to pursue men, for they will chase her. Her problem is one of elimination.

After the entity passes the curve of maximum female energy, she becomes more male in looks and action until she again crosses the threshold and is back to where the entity started as a feminine male.

Our purpose as we go through male and female cycles and take upon ourselves male and female bodies is quite different. As a female, our soul is pushing us toward receivership. We have just finished a male cycle of sending and have benefited the maximum amount from this. We become tired of sending out the same old things and we want to learn something new. We want a new challenge.

There is an eternal law which says that all souls are one, and in our apparently separate condition we must be interdependent to realize that unity. When we seek new growth and challenges, we receive stimulation from other souls who have more wisdom and experience than ourselves and then verify that stimulation from the God within. If this does not happen, we will merely repeat a previous cycle and learn nothing new.

If we really want to enhance our ability to serve, then we become female (be born in female bodies) and put ourselves in a state of magnetic receivership. As a female, then, an individual’s mission is to seek out a male companion who is able to send or teach her something that she has never before realized. Her male friend must have in his repertoire learning and experiences that he can send to her so she can receive. Therefore, it is beneficial if the male in the relationship be the one who has attained the highest state of evolution or spiritual progression. The male can then do his job of lifting the female from the world of matter toward Spirit.

The sending position in a relationship is not established by who has the greatest number of facts in the memory, or through education, but by who has the greatest understanding of underlying principles behind all facts and knowledge. The understanding of principles is only attained through strenuous effort over a series of lifetimes.

Therefore, the female fulfills her purpose by attaching herself to a male who can send to her and pull her up to higher levels of spiritual thought. When this happens she feels fulfilled and balanced. When she either refuses to receive or cannot receive, because there is no man in her life who can teach her, she will feel out of balance. If she is the companion to a man who is less evolved than herself, then she automatically becomes the teacher, or the male energy, even while in a female body. Playing the role of male energy in a female body is like swimming upstream. It is difficult and the person will inwardly yearn for the downstream current.

Many females who understand this principle will complain about the difficulty in finding a male who can send to them in a romantic relationship.

On the other hand, many males will also complain that they cannot find a female who will receive.

What are they to do?

The answer is to seek balance outside of the romantic relationship. The female can seek to receive higher knowledge from a sending source (male) and thus balance herself by receiving.

The male can do the same but seek to teach and send in avenues outside of romance in the real world.

Of course, both sexes use both energies, but the emphasis for the physical male will naturally be on sending and the female on receiving until balance in achieved.

If we can achieve that balance in a romantic relationship we are fortunate indeed, but for those who have no opportunity at present should not worry, for your cycle of opportunity will come. Contrary to what the preachers are saying today, life is fair.

Why is this principle important for us to understand?

To put humankind in alignment with nature, as are the lives in the miniature world in the molecules and atoms, then the correct interplay must be established among us just as it is in the microcosm.

The correct interplay and cooperation of the negative and positive (or female and male) energies in the subatomic world creates an atom which is greater than the sum of its parts. Therefore, is it not reasonable to assume that the correct interplay of male and female in the human kingdom creates something more potent than the male or female alone?

The atom is created by the balanced interplay of male and female, or sending and receiving energies. The complete human atom is created on the same principle. The male and female are combined through the covenant of marriage, or some other agreement, and will happily remain in this state as long as the interplay of energies is correct.

Perhaps it is no mistake that the Bible not only calls the male “Adam” (which ironically sounds like “atom”), but identifies male and female together as “Adam:” “Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called THEIR NAME ADAM, in the day they were created.” Gen 5:2

If male and female united together produce one human Atom (or Adam) then we may reason that the creation of a human molecule is possible by taking the laws of the atomic world and applying them to the human world.

As we mentioned, a molecule is a much more evolved combination of atoms than is a single atom. The atoms still keep their identity, yet, through cooperation, the whole union of atoms becomes possible and a new creation appears. Hydrogen and oxygen united keep their identity, but, in their union, the properties produced are no longer that of either hydrogen or oxygen, but water, a totally different and more evolved substance.

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