The Coaches Corner with Coach Curtis
Life Takes Sand!
Sand! It is what they say about you if you have grit, determination, courage and staying power. “He’ll get the job done; he’s got sand enough to do it!” One of the first things I look for in a client is if they are serious about their personal growth and development. Are they willing to change and shift direction if necessary? Or are they going to wander around in circles, living lives of quiet desperation. Tom asks, “Why is that coyote howling over there?” Bill answers, “Cause he’s sittin on a cocklebur.” Tom, “Why don’t he get off of it?” Bill, “Because he ain’t done howling!” I’ve found that excessive howling rarely gets one anywhere, so we might as well deal with life’s cockleburs and move on.
The more I consider it the more I see that life is like the game of golf. You tee off (born) and shoot into the future hopefully straight down the fairway, hoping to play a full eighteen (120 years). But the way is not always fair as sometimes when we hit the ball we land in the rough – in a bush, behind a tree or even in a sand trap. Hazards are everywhere! Life is like that, you never know what boggie the world is going to throw at you: a health issue, financial crisis or relationship challenge. All we know is that after one hole is finished, there will always be a next one.
Like in golf, a Key to Success is to be able to play from where you are, right now where the ball has landed. You must be present in the present. As you learn to live in the Here and Now nexus of Time and Space, you see that it becomes easier to hit the ball from wherever it lies. You accept all consequences from the past but do not dwell there. Neither do you worry about the future or where the ball will land next — until it gets there, then again you play from there. Past shots are behind you. Like an 18 hole golf course, life is a series of situations and experiences designed to teach us knowledge and wisdom through needed lessons. If you are in a bad spot it is because you are learning a lesson and if you do not learn it, experiences will be repeated until you do. Just don’t let your karma conflict with your dharma as they say.
There are no short cuts to life or golf; you can’t skip a hole and win the game. You can’t say because you are in a sand trap, “Oh darn, I think I’ll just skip this shot and play from somewhere else!” You must play from here and pass through every sandy ordeal on the path if you are to be made stronger and wiser. And remember, of any negative situation, “This too shall pass”. You can’t stay in a rut or debacle forever! And Life never gives you more than you can handle!
Know that in facing life’s challenges you are not alone. Be assured that everybody is going through some obstacle whether it’s a death, bankruptcy, health issues, substance abuse, DUI or a family crisis. Fortunately you have all the tools you need at your disposal to avoid traps and stay on the fairway. Pro golfer Jack Nicklaus advises, “Whenever I’ve reached a point of being unable to resolve a serious swing problem, I’ve gone to my teachers for help. By finding yourself an instructor who will really get to know your game, you can save yourself lots of confusion and frustration.” Even the greatest among us need coaching sometimes.
You have family, friends and associates to help you through the rough patches. There are books, workshops and classes to teach you principles and techniques for successful living. There are Support Groups, Success Teams, Life Coaches and Unseen Powers to assist you along the way. You need never struggle alone as we are all in this together! Remember, because life’s challenges and traps will only make you stronger, and because you need traction to succeed, pray that as you journey the slippery slopes of Life that you will always have SAND!
This article is dedicated to my Aunt Sandy who is a true inspiration to all who know her.
Assignment: See a cocklebur in your life that you would like to get off of. Share it with a friend and be open to suggestions.
Teachings – You are never given a greater challenge than you can handle. You alone are the captain of Fate, Master of your destiny. Be grateful for all of your challenges, it is the only way to grow. You set your own future.
Get Life Coaching by Curtis – First session is complimentary. Email: curtisharwell@msn.com. Visit my website: www.gatheringoflights.com
Gratitude and Thanksgiving!
By Life Coach Curtis Harwell
In my 30 plus years as a Life/Success Coach I have been asked countless times the secret to a long and happy life. Many expect me to tell them it is a correct diet, or financial success, or a great marriage. And while these things will contribute to one’s happiness and well being, they are not the secret to finding it. In my opinion, the Key to Happiness and Longevity is simply being grateful for who you are and where you are right now. Joy is a grateful heart, knowing that you have enough of everything you need to be happy. And the power to attract anything you desire.
My wife and I bought a beautiful place in the country, a Victorian farmhouse built in 1906 with a forest of trees, shrubs, a huge fish pond and outbuildings. It was truly home sweet home. But the property had no yard-art to give it that rustic appeal I wanted, so I began focusing my attention on locating a few treasures of antiquity. After about a year I looked around to see over 50 old milk cans, harnesses, horse shoes, cross-cut saws, 300 feet of logging chains, school bells, old implements and a ton of cool collectibles. I had manifested everything I put my attention on.
I discovered that we have on hand everything we need. Once you are aware of this fact, and of your inner power, you can relax and really begin to enjoy life. You can let go of worry, stress and anxiety and increase your attitude of Gratitude and Thankfulness. Especially be thankful for this time of year to share with family and loved ones. Give thanks for your friends, lifestyle, freedom, knowledge, good health and all that you have. Pray often, acknowledging the Hand of God from whom all blessings flow, the greatest of which are abundance, happiness and a long life!
In his book, “The Hidden Messages in Water”, Masaru Emoto, a Japanese scientist has proven the power of prayer through crystalline photography. He discovered that praying over well water changes its molecular structure into beautiful crystalline patterns when frozen, while water from a microwave oven or water set on top of a television receiving negative electromagnetic energy appears corrupted and non-crystalline. After performing hundreds of experiments where some water is blessed and praised and some cursed and yelled at, he discovers the stimulated water molecules respond radically either crystallizing beautifully or showing an ugly chaotic condition.
Corresponding the water molecules to the physical body, Mr. Emoto’s findings take a quantum leap. He says, “Positive thinking will strengthen your immune system and help to set you moving towards recovery – a fact that the medical community is starting to wake up to. For instance, there is a doctor who treats his cancer patients with mountain climbing. Giving people a reason to live boosts their spirits and their immune systems… The human body is essentially water, and consciousness is the soul. Methods that help water to flow smoothly are superior to all other medical methods available to us. It’s all about keeping the soul in an unpolluted state. Can you imagine what it would be like to have water capable of forming beautiful crystals flowing throughout your entire body? It can happen if you let it!” Imagine Living Water flowing inside you!
The author goes on to say how prayers of love and gratitude have a tremendous healing effect upon any intended recipient. This validates the wisdom of Jesus when he told his disciples to “BLESS them that curse you, and PRAY for them which despitefully use you.” Luke 6:28 It’s all about shifting consciousness in ourselves and nothing does it faster than prayers of gratitude and love, which are also the healing energies for the body.
What is the best way to express gratitude? Be a blessing to others and of service to your community. Be available to help when called upon or when you see a need. Show up, come through for others and bless their lives. It will return to you tenfold. Take one minute each day to pray for our Military, our Country and our Leaders, for Peace on Earth and goodwill toward all humanity.
Assignments: 1. Pay attention to what goes into your body – food, drink, drugs, etc. Ask yourself, Is this good or bad for me? 2. Listen to the words you speak, are they positive or negative? 3. Make a list of everything you are thankful for. Share it. Bye the way, do you know anyone who needs a milk can?
This article is dedicated to my wife Sue Ellen, who assists me on the straight and narrow path.
“Making a Difference” with Coach Curtis
We all want to make a difference with our lives yet some people continue to have a larger impact than others. Here is a story I heard long ago that I wish to share with you. “At the first glimmer of light of dawn, a young man walked at the edge of the seashore. There had been a storm the night before, and he knew this would be a good morning to find seashells. With pants rolled up above his ankles, he walked along looking down for what treasures he might find. Then the young man looked up and could barely make out a figure of a very old man ahead of him. The young man watched as the old man bent down to pick up an object from the sand and toss it into the surf.
As he got closer he noticed that the old man was picking up starfish that had been washed up on the beach by the storm. There were thousands of them, but one by one the old man picked them up and tossed them back into the sea. Nearing the old man the younger one introduced himself and said,”Excuse me, but there are thousands of starfish stranded here on the beach. You can’t possible make a difference!” The old man smiled and looked at him, then picked up another starfish and tossed it into the sea and said, “Well I certainly made a difference to that one, didn’t I, son?”
Leaving our mark on the sands of time is what our lives are really all about. We don’t leave our mark by acquiring, but by contributing. You are not remembered by what you have, but for what you give away.
I was in the check-out line in a grocery store not long ago and the lady two carts ahead of me was tallying up her bill. Embarrassed, she realized that she was $9.35 short. Instantly, the guy standing behind her flipped out a $10 bill and said, “This should cover it!” It not only saved the woman further embarrassment but he set an example for all to follow. He gave without asking for anything in return – an entirely selfless act. Plus he made a difference to that one!
Perhaps that is why I like being a Life Coach so much. I help others achieve their goals and dreams, find inner peace and contribute to their community. Perhaps I can assist you as well. I am offering a complimentary coaching session to anyone interested. If you have any aches, pains, worries or woes, I will have my massage chair available for a relaxing, stress release treatment, and my coaching corner set up to assist you with any of your life’s challenges. Please take advantage of this opportunity. I look forward to meeting with you, so just call 761-4110 to set an appointment.
Assignment: (should you choose to accept it) Go to your pantry and fill a box or two with extra food that you can spare and share it with whoever you can. You will be amazed at what will come back to you; plus you will truly be making a difference!
“Ah, but a man’s reach should exceed his grasp, or what’s a heaven for!”
Robert Browning
To make a difference in your world, here are four simple keys, 1. Be more positive than negative in any situation, 2. Look for opportunities to serve, 3. Take initiative and be a blessing in someone’s life. 4. Expand and radiate your circle of influence.
The Value of Community!
By Life Coach Curtis Harwell
I love living in New Plymouth, Idaho! The people are friendly, it has a beautiful horseshoe park with squirrels and disc golf, a couple dozen accommodating stores and shops and is very community oriented. Just about everyone contributes in one way or another for the benefit of our town. We have an active Senior Center, fourteen churches for 1,400 people, (100 people a piece), a Good Neighbor Community Service Center, the Internet Truck Stop – a community unto itself, and The New Plymouth Record, your “Community Newspaper”. If it takes a village to raise a child, then our schools systems are second to none, unequaled by the quality of graduates they produce each year.
Why is cultivating an empowered community so important? Let me give you an example found in nature, shared by Mr. Charles Scott. “When you see a flock of geese flying along in a “V” formation, you might be interested in knowing why they fly that way. It has been learned that as each bird flaps its wings, it creates an uplift for the bird immediately following. By flying in a “V” formation, the whole flock adds at least 71% greater flying range than if each bird flew on its own.” A basic truth here is that people who share a common direction and sense of community get where they are going quicker and easier because they are traveling on the thrust of one another.
“Whenever a goose falls out of formation it suddenly feels the drag of trying to go it alone and quickly gets back into formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the birds immediately in front.” Basic truth number two is if we have as much sense as a goose, we will stay in formation with those who are headed the same way we are going.
“Finally, when a goose gets sick, or is wounded by gunshot, two geese fall out of formation and follow down to help and protect it. They stay with the goose until it is either able to fly or is dead, and then they launch out on their own or with another formation to catch up with their group.” A final truth is that if we have the sense of a goose, we will stand by each other, protect one another and make new friends who are going our direction towards happiness and a better lifestyle.” Here we have the power of community; one becomes part of something greater than oneself, yet retains individuality; synergistically, the whole becomes way more than the sum of its parts as each part becomes greater than it could have ever become alone.
Together, we build a better community based upon give and receive, friendship, trust and cooperation. And as good as our community is, it can always get better. Start by making a list of everyone you know in the area and see how you can make a better connection with them. See opportunities to make as many contributions to others as you can, thus strengthening community ties. Visit your neighbors and friends with a gift, positive story or message, an invitation to an upcoming event, etc. Be available for friendship and be service oriented. “What can I do for you today?” Introduce friends to friends of other friends and expand your social circle. Create win/win scenarios.
Learn to share, trade, barter and exchange resources – items of value, time, contacts, even ideas can be shared in a way that benefits all. Contribute to churches, local relief centers or to whoever is in need. In this way you will truly make a difference in our community. We all have excesses – extras and spare parts we don’t need that can be re-appropriated. Let’s move them along.
There is nothing more powerful than Community in Action! Here’s to a fantastic communitarian affiliation and friendship throughout the coming year. May we all live well and prosper!
Assignment: 1. Set a goal to keep our community beautiful – pick up trash and litter when you see it. 2. Choose three people and go visit them this week. 3. Make a list of things you can do without and share them on our Community Barter Exchange as explained on our website www.gatheringoflights.com.
The Power of One!
Believe it or not, the mysteries, powers and designs of the entire universe lie within you. As it is without, so it is within. If you have ever studied the complexities of a DNA molecule and the genes that make up your physiology, you know what I am talking about. We contain within us molecular orders that rival the most complex galaxies and stellar systems. The fact that we are conscious beings living lives of free will on a beautiful planet never ceases to amaze me. It is not happenstance and did not happen by accident as there is a Divine Hand of Universal design guiding us carefully through the God created cosmos. And yet each one of us is an entity unto itself with divine purpose and composition that can be completely trusted and intuited as the source to find true happiness, fulfillment and answers.
No matter what happens to us in life we must each be able to stand alone, in our own power, complete and stable. Only then can we confront life’s challenges and discover our own truth. As expressed by Robert Browning: “Truth is within ourselves; it takes no rise from outward things whatever you may believe. There is an inmost center in us all where truth abides in fullness, and to know rather consists in opening out a way whence the imprisoned splendor may escape, than effecting entry for a light supposed to be without.” And as Shakespeare said, “This above all, to thine own self be true and then it must follow as the night the day, thou can’st not then be false to any man.” The integrity of your relationships will only be as strong as you are true to yourself.
Like great men and women before us, each of us has the ability to accomplish whatever we set out to do – what we can conceive and believe we can achieve. You need no one else’s approval or persuasion, only to trust yourself completely to make the contributions that only you can make. Here is something to think about: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our Light, not our darkness that frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?
“You are a child of God. You’re playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to manifest the Glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us, it is in every one of us. And as we let our own Light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fears, our presence automatically liberates others. (written by Marianne Williamson for 1994 Inaugural Speech for Nelson Mandella)
It feels good to know that your life has a purpose and that you are imbued with power to make a difference. What difference will that be? Look within as only you will know the answer to that one! Just remember that The Power of God is Within YOU!
As you stand in your own Power you will have:
- Supreme Health and Wellness,
2. Better/Deeper Relationships,
3. Ability to Manifest Needs and Desires
4. Closer Connection with Body, Mind and Spirit.
Assignment: Enroll in “Breakthrough! Initiation into Power!”
“We can because we think we can!”
Rules for Being Human! by Life Coach Curtis Harwell
In my personal empowerment programs I offer a few rules of the road designed to help you stay focused and aware of the journey of Life we have all embarked upon. I call them simply, “Rules for Being Human”.
- You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.
- You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a full-time school called Life! Each day in this school you will have an opportunity to learn lessons. You may like these lessons or find them irrelevant and stupid.
- There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error, exploration and experimentation. The “failed” experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment the ultimately works.
- A lesson is repeated until it is learned. It will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it, then you can go on to the next lesson.
- Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. As long as you are living in a body, there are new lessons to be learned.
- “There” is no better than “here”. When your “there” has become a “here”, you will simply obtain another “there” that will again look better than “here”.
- Others are only mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself. Avoid shattering mirrors.
- What you make of your life is up to you. You are a creator with all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. You are free to choose.
- Answers to your questions and solutions to your problems lie within you. All you need to do is look within, listen and trust yourself to know the truth.
- Leave your mark on the world. Gifts and talents were given for you to be of service to others. You make a valuable contribution when you reach out to other humans and rise with them to higher ground.
“Life is no brief candle to me. It is a splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.” George Bernard Shaw.
It feels good to know that your life has a purpose and that you are imbued with power to make a difference. What difference will that be? Look within as only you will know the answer to that one! As you follow these rules, and stand in your own power you will have: 1. Supreme Health and Wellness, 2. Better/Deeper Relationships, 3. Greater ability to Manifest Needs and Desires, 4. Stronger Connection with Body, Mind and Spirit.
Assignment: Enroll in “Breakthrough! Initiation into Power!” First coaching session is complimentary. Email: curtisharwell@msn.com; or call 761-4110. Visit website: www.gatheringoflights.com,
“New Year’s Resolutions”
By Life Coach Curtis Harwell
It’s that time of year when we set goals and resolutions for ourselves that by the 1st of February turn out to be mostly wishful thinking. Why is it so difficult to attain our goals and dreams? A few reasons are: 1. Lazy gene kicks in, goal requires too much effort, 2. Not totally committed to the result. 3. Lack of support and encouragement, who cares!? 4. Didn’t really want to do it in the first place! 5. No strategy plan for success. Fail to plan-plan to fail! 6. You forget all about them.
How does one achieve a goal? Let’s take cigarette smoking as an example. Everyone knows it a disgusting, unhealthy habit but one very difficult to break. Suppose you smoke a pack a day. Your New Year’s Resolution is to quit completely but you’ve tried and failed a hundred times. This time you are serious! First, you create in your mind a vision of a healthier, wealthier you (you save $5 a day!) Next, make a commitment to yourself to stop smoking. You know you can stick to it this time! Then get support – tell everyone you are quitting smoking. All your friends will want to see you succeed at this goal so let them hold you accountable.
You don’t have to quit cold turkey, just take small steps toward your goal. Remember, by the yard it’s hard, by the inch it’s a cinch. Lastly, be able to measure your successes. A goal means nothing without results in a specific time frame. If you reduce your smoking habit by one cigarette a week and you will have overcome this worthless habit in only 20 weeks! A fantastic goal with concrete, measurable results that we will feel great about!
This formula works for weight control as well. If we want to lose weight but are not willing to change eating habits or get more exercise, our resolution remains only a nice thought. Something must change. Remember the definition of insanity, doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. It’s like being stuck in the mud spinning your tires and getting nowhere. Sometimes you need a little push in the right direction and that is where your motivational Success Coach comes in. He or she is as committed to your success as you are and will do whatever it takes to keep you on target. Just about everyone needs coaching at some point and just about anyone can be a coach, with a little training. Don’t be shy about asking for or offering support as it makes achieving resolutions so much easier.
Reaching our goals and dreams brings us happiness and fulfillment like nothing else can. We change our world by improving ourselves. At the Coaches Corner we are ready to help you with any of your New Year’s Resolutions. Come visit us for a FREE coaching session and get a jump-start on your new year’s journey to happiness and success. Call Curtis Harwell at 208-761-4110 to set an appointment. Visit website www.gatheringoflights.com.
From the Coaches Corner
Life Coach Curtis Harwell says:
Resistance is Futile!
I recently visited my 86 year old dad, Stanley and stepmom Madge in Blackfoot. Dad has a 350 tree apple orchard that I help him with every year and it gives us opportunity to visit and spend time together. Both Dad and Madge are in a lot of pain – Madge has arthritis so bad she can hardly sleep and Dad has a bad case of gout. I’ve been taking a special blend of vitamins designed to combat pain from both gout and arthritis and I have no symptoms of any such ailments. But, do you think I could get them to try these vitamins? Not a chance! They both prefer to take their Dr. prescribed drugs that merely mask the symptom, but do not affect a cure. I’m not sure if they won’t try them because it was me who recommended them, or because their Dr. didn’t, but in any case I’ve never met with such headstrong resistance. And they suffer on.
Another family member with severe arthritis purchased these particular vitamins, formulated, by the way, by a renowned veterinarian/medical doctor but won’t take them even though there is a great chance they will help her. She goes to her Dr. and still suffers on. What is the real problem here?
Internal resistance is the number one cause of all disease as it blocks the flow of natural healing energies inherent to optimum well being. These vitamins will help the body by providing essential nutrients, but it is this state of resisting new ideas, products and suggestions that is the main culprit. I say, if it won’t hurt to try it and it might actually help you, then give it a shot. What have you got to lose? (Go to www.youngevity.com, for more information.)
Whatever we resist will persist. Look at your life and ask yourself, what am I resisting that I should be accepting into my life? Where am I blocking myself? We all have blind spots that others can see through. That is why it is essential to listen to positive input and feedback even if we resist hearing it. God works in mysterious ways His wonders to perform. You could hear the solution to one of your personal problems over the radio, from a child or a stranger. You will know the truth when you hear it if you are in tune with your higher power. Above all, do not resist those sublime, inner impressions when they come to you as they are from the light of your soul and are your one true infallible guide, to be trusted above all else. May you be open to all truth and may the truth set you free!
Assignment: 1. Set three goals with time frame, 2. Put up a Vision Board of these three goals plus other hopes and dreams for the New Year. Attach photos, images, $, inspirational quotes, names of people supporting you, list of steps to take, etc. Place this board where you will see it every day. 3. Watch your dreams come true!
From the Coaches Corner
Creating Win/Win!
As a Life Coach I wish to share with you three Principles that will truly make you wealthy, healthy and wise. Applying them has made me feel rich, energetic and God blessed, so if you do not have all the wealth, joy and happiness you feel you deserve in life then it might be time to reevaluate your position of give and receive and step up your energy flow.
Principle Number One: Strengthen your connection with others; it is not just about you. Few people in life are truly happy as they have not yet learned to take the attention off of themselves and put it on someone else. These people make life all about themselves, their own needs, wants, aches, pains, wins, losses, etc. Their ego-need creates a vacuum that they simply cannot fill, so these people remain alone, feeling as empty inside as the Grand Canyon. Remember, you are not remembered for what you acquire, but for what you give away. When was the last time you spent an hour of your time with someone who just needed your attention? Make yourself available to others and strengthen your connection with them.
Principle Number Two: Create Win/Win. As the famous sales trainer and success coach Zig Ziglar used to say, “Help enough other people get what they want and they will see that you get what you want”. Here is a Win/Win Example: When I first met my wife she didn’t smoke. Then I guess I drove her to it and she has been smoking on and off for eight years. I hate smoking and want her to quit so I posted $200 on the fridge with a note saying that it was hers if she quit smoking with $100 every month after that for a year. She took the money and said, “Great! I was going to quit tomorrow any way and want to do some shopping at Macys! Thanks for the cash Honey!” We both won and applauded each other as well!
My friend Calvin gave me eleven large packages of bluegill fish, if in return I would spray his dad’s place for bugs. I said sure thing. Now what will I do with all that fish? I gave almost all of it away to other customers who were all very appreciative of the gesture. You see, it doesn’t take a big thing to create win/win for yourself and others, just a little imagination.
Remember the movie “Pay it Forward!” out several years ago with Kevin Spacey and a young boy given an assignment in social studies class to make a better world? His plan was to contribute to three people asking nothing in return, believing these three would in turn help three other people who would help three other people and so on until the world was positively transformed by everyone serving each other. It was an inspired concept, and if we all practiced it what a fantastic world it would be. All of our good deeds would come back to us in the form of some very good karma, if we would just give without expecting anything in return.
Principle #3 is: Let others serve you. Open up and let them in! Give and receive is just that. One must learn to receive as well as give; how else can the Blessings of God be upon you! When you let others be a blessing to you, you give them opportunity to feel good about themselves by giving back. Don’t deny them the privilege to bless your life. Just say YES to blessings when they come to you and be thankful for them. Because of these three principles I am a blessed man today. I have everything I want and nothing that I need, except to share with others. As you expand your “Circle of Influence”, see how good it feels to make yourself available to others. Ask “How can I be of service to you today?” Don’t make your contributions about money, just know that all good deeds are rewarded in their own time and way.
If you follow these three simple principles, you will be happy for the rest of your life. In offering to share your time, talents and resources you will not only be a help to others, but this contagious attitude will influence others to help make the world a much better place in which to live!
For more information about Life Coaching and Personal Empowerment, email: curtisharwell@msn.com;, visit website: www.gatheringoflights.com, or call
208-761-4110.
Wealth, Prosperity and Abundance!
The Art of Making Money$!
By
Success Coach Curtis Harwell
When J. Paul Getty, the early American oil Tycoon was asked how much money does a man really need? He answered, “I little more than I’ve got!” Since all of us could use a little more coin in the pocket, I thought I’d share with you a few tips and ideas to build your business and make more money this year.
- Determine the value of your product or service. What do you have to offer? Why will people buy from you? What is their problem that you are the solution to? Set a goal and game plan for how much money you wish to make this year.
2. Create a specialized Niche Market. Marketing paradox – the smaller the piece of the pie you go for, the bigger the piece you’ll get. Like popcorn magnate Orville Redenbacher says, “Do one thing and do it well.”
3. Build Business Relationships. Together we can do anything, as magic happens when energies align. See the big picture. Make a contact list of allies and resources.
4. Surround yourself with people you like and trust. They are your sounding board. Be available, open, positive and supportive to those in your inner circle. Pay attention to feedback, input, and critique.
5. Work with anyone and everyone without prejudice. See the value in all and build on common ground to create win/win. “Help enough people get what they want and they will see to it that you get what you want!” Zig Zigglar. You never know who holds a key.
6. Trust your intuition and sense the winds of change. Keep your finger on the pulse of market trends and shifts in timing and interest. What is hot today may be cold tomorrow. Keep your financial options open.
7. Use clear, concise languaging. The distance between you and everything you want is Communication! Clear language attracts the right clients, partners, investors, and team-players. Be direct, honest, concise and focused. Eliminate the words can’t, but and try.
8. Live in integrity with yourself and others. See it; say it; do it. Keep your agreements, beginning with TIME commitments! Twenty minutes late, you buy lunch! Your word is your bond. 9. Never stop training and developing yourself. With today’s advances in technology there is always something to learn. Stay ahead of the curve – read books, ask questions, be inquisitive. Do first the things you don’t like to do.
10. Play outside the Box. You cannot confine Intuition, Synergy, or Creativity. You have a unique reason for being here, to make a difference in the world that only you can make! Do what you love and the money will follow!
German philosopher Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe says, “There is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never have otherwise occurred. A whole stream of events issue from the decision, raising in ones favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance which no one could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it now. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it!”
To open new doors of financial opportunity, we are creating an association of business owners, entrepreneurs, salespeople and everyone interested in greater financial success. You will have access to an extraordinary resource pool of knowledge, connections and technical skills. Get the support you need to make you goals and dreams come true. We meet often to discuss projects, share leads and generate ideas to make more money. Email curtisharwell@msn.com, to receive your FREE Success Packet loaded with ideas and strategies for increased wealth.
Assignment: read chapter “The Art of Networking!” at www.gatheringoflights.com, then check out the “Community Barter Exchange”. May 2015 be our most successful year ever!
From the Coaches Corner
Techniques for Stress Release.
Everybody experiences it almost daily – feelings of worry, inner tension, anxiety, and self-doubt. Sometimes it exists only in the mind, without just cause, other times we are emotionally and physically affected by it. It
is, in my opinion, the number one cause of death, and leads to disease, accidents, hyper-tension and nervous disorders. What am I talking about? Why, stress of course!
There is no avoiding life stress, but it is the way you choose to handle stress that can mean the difference between happiness and sorrow, longevity and an early grave. The answer to stressful situations is not in denial, avoidance, sticking your head in the sand, but in taking a common sense approach to dealing with whatever is causing your angst. Here are some Stress Release Techniques designed to help you effectively deal with life stress and live a more joyful, happy and healthy life.
- As an intelligent human being, know that you are capable of effectively dealing with whatever situations and challenges come your way.
- Trust yourself to confront whatever is stressing you. Life does not dish out more than you can handle (have you had a day yet that you didn’t survive?) Feel free to challenge whatever is influencing you to the negative.
- Life is about learning lessons and developing “sand”. Know that you are always in the right place at the right time and a Higher Power is guiding your direction. Nothing happens by accident and there are no victims.
- Be proactive and take responsibility for any situation you find yourself in. You co-created this reality and you can change it. Take an affirmative action in dealing with stressful situations.
- Don’t handle stressful situations alone. Draw upon the strength of family, friends, your Life Coach and your significant other. People care about you; let them help.
- Don’t take upon yourself the burdens of others. Say “I refuse to make your problem my problem. However, I do see a solution to your problem!”
- Do a Time Projection into the future when whatever is stressing you no longer exists. Every experience has a beginning, middle and end. Repeat to yourself, “This too shall pass!”
- Communicate what is stressing you. Once you open up and express what is on your mind, a door opens for answers and solutions that will eliminate the cause of stress.
- Recognize needless worry. How many of us worry excessively about what never comes to pass? This is why the mind is sometimes called “the slayer of the real”.
- If you can’t change what is stressing you, a death for example, learn to adapt and accept it as it is, however painful this may seem.
- Don’t sweat the small stuff and everything is small stuff. By the yard it’s hard, by the inch it’s a cinch. Learn to Measure, Manage and Master daily stresses. Make them bite-sized.
- Wear stress-free colors to fit your mood. – Greens when healing, orange when adventurous, purple when introspective, red when festive, etc. Trust and follow your inner color-guide.
- Music tames the savage beast! Enjoy the sounds of music and take time each day to listen to soothing, relaxing music. Learn how certain sounds, rhythms and tones create peace in body, mind and spirit.
- Retreat into nature. See that none of the birds, squirrels or trees are stressing, why should you? Take time to smell the roses as nature is your healing playground. Acknowledge the Hand of God in all Creation!
- Confront the cause of stress head on. You are strong enough to handle any challenge life throws at you without running from it. Remember, if it doesn’t kill you it will only make you stronger!
- Shift your perception of a stressful situation. Change your position from victim to director or observer and detach yourself momentarily. There is always another way of looking at anything. See the positive and if possible the humor in any situation.
- Take a deep breath. Oxygen burns out negative stressors, opens neuro-pathways and purifies the blood. Breathing deeply keeps you healthy and rejuvenated.
- Listen to the sound of falling water. Science reveals that up to 75 % of all stress is eliminated by the primal sound of rushing water, perhaps from being safe and nurtured in the womb. Drink more water to balance your system.
- Get physical! Exercise your body – take a walk, get aerobic, stretch, work out and get your pulse rate up. You deal with stress better when you are physically strong.
- Pay attention to what you take into your body. Chemical stress can be subtle yet lethal. Smoking taxes the immune system and too many pharmaceutical drugs simply mask the real issue. Eat healthy foods, take nutritional supplements, vitamins, minerals and get plenty of sunshine.
- Pamper yourself! Go shopping, get a massage, see a movie, and splurge a little on the dinner menu. Order desert with ice cream. Treat yourself special because you are special!
- Enjoy a constant state of gratitude. Know that all life’s challenges are an opportunity for growth and development. Be thankful, pray often and know that Higher Power will open a way for you to deal effectively with life’s challenges.
- Meditation, quiet reflection, and soft music, can do wonders in raising your energy and mood. It also enhances your immune system for overall health benefits, mentally, physically and emotionally.
- Avoid repeating stressful stories. Past dramas are illusions that take us out of present time and space. It takes two ego minds to make an illusion real, so don’t buy into and validate the dramas and illusions of others.
- Escape into the Eternal Here and Now, where stress is non-existent. The Presence of the Prescience is Present in the Present and that is His Present to those Present in this Holy Instant. Remember, “In God We Trust”!
- If you can’t change what is stressing you, a death for example, learn to adapt and accept it as it is, however painful this may seem.
- Money is a big stressor. Avoid going into debt – stash those credit cards for emergency use only! Pay bills on time and make do with what you have. Give your wife a little more of it.
- Patience is a virtue. Don’t try to push the river, as everything moves in its own way, at its own time. Just know that everything will work out well for you in the end. Repeat the “Serenity Prayer”.
- Get over it and get on with it! It’s time to mature up your life, dump stress related baggage and forget about it. Attend our next stress release “Let Go Party” and blast through whatever is bothering you.
Quotes: We suffer more often in imagination than in realty.” Seneca. The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.” William James. Remember, it’s all in a state of mind!
Assignment: Write down three things that are stressing you right now. Choose two people you can talk to about these three things and ask for their feedback. If you can, find out what is stressing them and offer support.
For more relaxing information email Stress Release Coach CurtisHarwell@msn.com. You have stresses, he can help. Schedule a complimentary stress release session today @ 208-761-4110.
Ten Tips for Couples in Love
from Relationship Coach Curtis Harwell
We were all born to be in love and to love deeply. Love is the energy that binds, heals, and gives purpose to everything we do. Since Valentine’s Day is here I feel it is appropriate to help strengthen the bonds of love and affection by sharing with you the following “Secrets for Couples in Love”. Although originally written for married couples, they will apply to anyone involved in a serious relationship with plans for deeper intimacy.
- Put your relationship first. Your mate is your best friend, confident and life partner. True power comes from a committed relationship where divorce is not an option. Everything else will fall into place.
- Plan a future together and co-create it. Envision your ideal lifestyle. Where do you see yourselves in 6 months, 5 years, and 20 years from now? What about children, career, education, travel, a cabin in the hills, etc.? You can create whatever you can agree upon.
- Communicate, communicate, communicate! Share what’s in your heart and on your mind. Discuss ideas, wants, fears, desires and passions openly and honestly. Explore your shadow sides.
- Pursue common interests in recreation and fun! Enrich your lives by sharing each other’s hobbies and pastimes. Dance together whenever you can, vacation often, and plan a weekly romantic interlude. Be spontaneous.
- Befriend other couples. Connect with other couples who share high standards and moral values. This is your support system. Throw a party for all of your friends.
- Talk Philosophy, Theosophy, Politics and Religion. Stay open to differing points of view. Learn to explore hot topics and share different points of view without tension and hostility.
- Exercise and stay healthy together. Create a wellness-workout routine that keeps you both active, energized and feeling good. Take walks, bicycle, and spend time in nature. Your health is your true wealth.
- Never go to bed angry with your partner. You will both dream more sweetly once issues, arguments and tensions of the day are resolved. Relax your partner with a back rub or a foot massage.
- Study, Learn and Grow together. Read self-help books, attend classes, seminars and workshops on personal development. Be self-responsible in your marriage.
- Show your love and appreciation every day. Surprise your partner often with gifts, flowers, love notes, a romantic escapade. Find new ways to say “I love you!” There is no greater gift than the love we share.
Ask about my FREE Marriage Survival Kit which includes a Compatibility Questionnaire, and a Special Gift for couples. Email curtisharwell@msn.com, or call 208-761-4110 for appointment and see what he can do to empower and strengthen your relationship.
Life Coach Curtis Says:
Stand up for your Life!
The Power of the Resurrection!
Easter Sunday invokes fond childhood memories of hunting for decorated Easter eggs in the back yard, Sunday service with flowers for Mom and dinner at Grandma’s house. It was a wonderful spring day that we all looked forward to and it added a little color to the seriousness of what Easter Sunday means to the Christian world.
As Easter Time pertains to the resurrection of Jesus Christ, I thought I’d share a few thoughts on the subject of His divine demonstration and how these possibilities and potentialities apply to each one of us. Jesus rose from the grave to prove to the world that man could have power over death. He said, “Destroy this Temple (body) and after three days, by the power of God, I will raise it to life again!”
According to Strong’s concordance, resurrection, a New Testament word, means, “To stand to life again, raised to life again, rise from the dead or death.” It implies a reuniting of one’s spirit to the body. To understand the resurrection one must understand what happens when we die. We temporarily loose the body, but our Spirit (consciousness) lives on. We go through a judgment where we examine our past life and see how we can improve upon it and become a better person. Then we get a new body and are presented with more opportunities for personal growth. We don’t stay dead, but are “Born Again and Again” into the material world until we overcome all weakness of the flesh and create a purified, heavenly body that becomes inseparably connected with our spirit.
The New Testament reveals that there are two kinds of resurrection, one of death, judgment and correction, and the other is the Resurrection into Life. See John 5:25-29. We are reborn or resurrected into lives of correction to atone for past mistakes until we overcome all things and learn to be of service to God and man. We are then passed from death to Life and attain the resurrection that Jesus Christ achieved. He said, “I am the resurrection and the Life; he that believeth in me though he were dead, yet shall he live” John 11:25 “Verily, verily, I say unto you, if a man keep my saying he shall never see death!” John 8:51. Jesus opened the door to our salvation and became the Way, the Truth and the Light. He taught that what he could do, we could do also and became “the first born among many brethren.” Ro 8:29
Jesus demonstrated that the resurrection of Life is attained only while living in a body. In the Gospel of Philip from the Dead Sea Scrolls, we find this interesting scripture, “Those who say they will die first and then rise are in error. If they do not first receive the resurrection while they live, when they die they will receive nothing.” The idea of “Die and go to heaven” is the devils game from Dark Age mentality and is a total oxymoron. Heaven is a state of mind to be found while living joyously in a physical body, not when dead and out of the game.
The words of Bob Marley come to mind in the song “Get up, Stand Up!” One verse says, “Most people think Great God will come from the sky, take over everything and make everybody feel high. But if you know what life is worth, you will look for yours on earth, and now you see the light you’ll stand up for your life. Get up, stand up, stand up for your right, get up stand up, and don’t give up the fight. Life is your right! You can fool some people sometime, but you can’t fool all the people all the time, so now you see the light, you got to stand up for your life!”
No one wants to die, and when they do they don’t want to stay dead as this physical world is really where the action is. I hold with the philosophy that salvation is our personal struggle to overcoming all challenges and obstacles, including the “last enemy”, physical death. The seeds of Immortality are genetically encoded within each one of us; they need only to be activated by the power of Jesus Christ who holds the Keys of Death and Hell. Only through the Power of the Lord will we rise up and be with Him after we have done all we can do for ourselves. And this dear Friend is what the Resurrection is all about!
The Story of Life!
By Life Coach Curtis Harwell
Every life has a purpose and tells a fascinating story of adventure, conflict, wins, losses, ups and downs, victories and defeats. All lives are special and are carefully woven into the Divine Plan. Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential, strength, willpower or heart. You would not have developed “SAND”!
Everything happens for a reason and rarely do things happen by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, moments of courage and true greatness as well as times of sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat, boring, white washed road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable but dull and pointless. Is that what anybody really wants?
People move you forward. Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they are meant to be there, to teach you a lesson, assist you or to help you figure out who you are and who you want to become. You never know who these people will be, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way. One night, ten years ago I was at the Double Diamond listening to the band with my sister Susan. I glanced over to see a pretty blond girl looking right at me and I knew then and there some magic was about to unfold. Her name was Sue Ellen and sure enough, we hit it off and I married her! She has been a great teacher for me, essential in my life.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to new things. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust, caution, and self protection. These people are your teachers too.
Make every day count. Appreciate each moment and take from it everything you possibly can for you will never experience it exactly that way again. Talk to people you have never talked to before. Ask them questions and actually listen to what they have to say as we all have wisdom to share. Set your sights high, hold your head up and tell yourself what a great individual you are, for it is true! (God doesn’t make junk!) You have great value and can contribute much to others along the way. Envision your ideal life then go out and live it fully with absolutely no regrets!
Assignment: Practice random acts of kindness. Go the extra mile. Your best experiences are those shared with another person.
Lesson 1; You learn only by doing, so take risks, push yourself, and remember, fortune favors the BOLD!
Lesson 2; Materialism comprises the world we play in. Enjoy it and learn from it, but don’t get too attached to any of it!
Lesson 3; Deal with life’s issues the moment they arrive. Do not put them off as they won’t go away. Make the phone calls, send a correspondence.
For more information concerning “The Gathering of Lights Project”, visit our website www.gatheringoflights.com. Email curtisharwell@msn.com, and share with us a story from your life.
Coping with Loss
By Curtis Harwell
My wife, Sue Ellen and her mother Rosie were always very close, sharing an uncommon bond of love and affection. Now, my wife’s mother is about to die and there is not a single thing we can do about it. Last weekend we drove to Salt Lake City to see her only to find that pancreatic cancer had reduced her to a mere sixty pounds. A shell of her former self, she hangs on to the loving relationship shared between herself and Sue Ellen. The impending loss is driving my wife to a state of severe depression and agonizing grief that makes the entire situation hard to deal with.
Most everyone goes through this type of ordeal at least once in a lifetime and although it is never easy, there are a few things we can do to make coping with loss a little less painful. For example, relinquish control of the situation. “Help me to accept the things I cannot change”. The outcome always rests with God who gave us physical life and takes it away. There is a Higher Power that is beyond us that is in charge of all things and our resistance to the will of God will always prove futile.
It helps us to do diversionary things. The other day we went out and bought new bicycles and have found that riding them around the Horseshoe helps us escape into the here and now. We spend a lot of time playing pool at the Club and the Double Diamond where we have made many wonderful friends. We go often to the movies and out to dinner with family and friends. Connecting often with others really helps a lot.
I help her appreciate the love they had and the time they shared together. She will always have the memories and pictures and mementos to remind her of her mother. Time will eventually heal the pain she now feels and only good memories will remain. That’s how it is in life, only the love we felt stays with us. Meanwhile, I am coaching her to release and let go and let God, from whom all blessing flow, receive Rosie back into His Presence where she will be a free spirit once more.
If you are experiencing grief from the loss of family member, friend or even a pet, I would be glad to offer a complimentary coaching session to help you cope and move on. Email curtisharwell@msn.com, and I will be happy to make time to help you through this difficult part of your life. You need never struggle alone again.
Going Molecular!
By Curtis Harwell
In contemplating the true purpose of life and the next step in human evolution, I must say that the coming revelation hit me like a lightening flash right between the eyes! My uncle Joe Dewey and I were looking at a picture of “The Last Supper” by Leonardo da Vinci and we saw very clearly how the Apostles were carefully grouped into triads, or four groups of three. So what, you might ask, is the significance of this? Uncle Joe who had been my teacher and mentor for several years prior had come to a deep and significant understanding of the order of the cosmos and had been writing various books and articles on his findings.
He wrote a book called “The Molecular Marriage of Atoms” and explained that atoms (atom is Greek for smallest indivisible particle) tend to join together to create something greater than they were individually. Two hydrogen atoms and one oxygen atom combine to make water, one silicone atom and two oxygen atoms bond to make quartz and so on. Combinations become endless with atoms joining to make every substance known to man.
In the human world the fascinating correspondence, according to Joe, was that an ADAM, the smallest indivisible human particle was comprised of a man and a woman. “Male and female created He them, and blessed them, and called their name ADAM!” Genesis 5:2 (1+1=1!) Not only are Atom and Adam homonyms, but they both have similar properties and propensities as well. Each has a positive and negative charge protons-male, electrons-female, and both can combine with others to create something greater than itself.
I always knew my uncle was smart, but this information blew my mind. Then one day there we were in front of the Last Supper observing how Jesus Christ had organized the first Human Molecule of twelve Adams, with powers and properties far exceeding those of individual and disconnected Adams. Jesus and his Apostles had power to heal the sick, walk on water, perform all sorts of miracles and even conquer physical death. Individual Adams could not do these things. The key was in the Divine Order and the covalent or covenant bonding.
Once you understand the Law of Correspondences which states that “as above so below, as it is within so it is without” many mysteries of the Kingdom of God are revealed to you. Now, by following this Law, we can easily grasp the direction of human kingdom by observing the activity in the atomic worlds. The possibilities are both amazing and limitless. For example, what if 24 people joined together to duplicate the molecular structure of 6 carbon, 12 hydrogen and 6 oxygen atoms? What would we make? Why, we would create a sugar molecule! What a way to sweeten our lives and the community as well.
This is why I became a Life Coach, to help people realize their greatest potential. This involves developing communication skills, crossing social barriers, and becoming community minded. I have also found that masterminding, brainstorming and problem solving are most effectively done in small groups, preferably triads.
Over the years I have written a book called “The Gathering of Lights” about the positive outcome of good people coming together to make a better world. Uncle Joe has written ten or twelve books, “The Immortal”, “The Unveiling” and “Fixing America” just to name a few. Go to www.freeread.com, to find out more of what Joe Dewey has to say, or plan to attend his next “Gathering of Lights” in Boise, Idaho this June 26-28 (Fri evening through Sunday afternoon.) You will meet some interesting seekers of truth and leave feeling refreshed, enlightened and spiritually connected.
For more information about the coming Gathering, and the Molecular Concept call 208-761-4110. Want to be a Life Coach and help others along the way? Ask for free Life Coaching packet. You will be glad you did!
da Vinci Code
Sugar Molecule
We invite you to Get Wild and take the next step in Human Evolution and sweeten your life forever!
We are creating a Sugar Molecule out of 24 Human Adams/Atoms. Together we will generate tremendous Power, Abundance, Creativity, and Opportunity!
Join New Life Systems Inc today. Learn how to overcome the Last Enemy, Physical DEATH! (see 1 Cor. 15:26)
Bits, Pieces and Inspirations!
By Life Coach Curtis Harwell
In my years of Life Coaching I have come across many different quotes, ideas, principles and anecdotes. As 2015 is a year of New Beginnings, I thought it appropriate to share a few of these truisms with you. How about, “We can because we think we can!” and “No individual has any right to come into the world and go out of it without leaving behind his distinct and legitimate reason for having passed through it” George Washington Carver.
Here’s one I like from the Gnostic Gospel. “If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.” What are you committed to accomplishing this year?”
Patience is a virtue. Realizing your dreams take planning and time. The greatest achievement was at first and for a time a dream, or idea and like baking a cake, your ideas and visions take time to perfect, and if it takes longer than you anticipated and others begin to doubt, so what. You will come through in the end. Just remember, “Never give up, Never give up, Never, Never, Never Give up!” This was the entire speech of Sir Winston Churchill to a graduating class at an English university after the Allies had won WW2.
Master The Art of Timing. This means seeking Doors of Opportunity and dashing through them without hesitation when they open. Shakespeare said, “There is a tide in the affairs of men, which when taken at the flood, leads on to fortune; omitted, all the voyage of their life is bound in shallows and miseries.” Timing means not being hasty, but sensing when to strike with utmost efficiency, i.e., when to speak and when to remain silent. Timing also means keeping all agreements and Be on Time!
Live totally in the flow of the current, this nexus of Time and Space in the Here and Now continuum, moving gracefully like a boat down the river. The Presence of the Prescience is Present in the Present and that is His Present to those Present. May I Present God, Who reveals all things to us in the moment we need them. Just be Presentable!
Participate more in community events. Like pieces to a jigsaw puzzle, members of community join to be something greater than they are by themselves. Mix and mingle with neighbors and friends who share your interests, values and vision. Let yourself fully experience the synergy of connectedness as the sum of a community is far greater than its parts. It is an incredible feeling to share yourself with others; don’t miss it!
And now, for something new to contemplate. An active shift in consciousness is now happening that will empower all of us to become more than we have ever been up to this point. With all this talk about team work, synergy, networking and community, we still seem to be missing something, some cohesive factor that makes the unification process work and holds it all together. What is indeed the solution? It’s time to solve this mystery!
“There is one thing stronger than all the armies of the world, and that is an idea whose time has come.” Victor Hugo Let me introduce to you an idea whose time has come. It is time for the Gathering of Lights to begin and I am here to assist in this divine and timely process. Each person is a fragmented particle of light with a certain amount of brilliance, usually around 40 watts; hardly enough to make a difference in one’s own life, let alone the world! Only when connected with other Lights can one’s true power really turn on and make a difference.
This Gathering and Connecting process does not happen by accident, but by intelligent design and is why I have spent years developing a Breakthrough Program to precipitate this important happening. Please join our expanding Circle of Light to realize your true potential, find joy and happiness and harness the powers of the Universe. As Jesus Christ said, “Of myself I can do nothing!” Yet connected to the Eloheim and Father of Lights, he performed miracles, enlightened the world and even overcame death, resurrecting into Life Eternal. So it can be with you.
Commit to making a difference. Say Yes! To making a better world and fill the measure of your creation. Salvation by Christ = empowered to remain alive. Find joy in the moment. Here and Now is all you have – all there is! Show me something else! Everything you need is at hand. Be an instrument in the Hand of Almighty God!
May the blessings of God be upon you, May His peace abide in you, may His Presence illuminate your heart, Now and Forevermore!
Now you must take your next step and join with other Lights to truly fulfill your destiny. Be not afraid as you are not alone in the darkness of the world. Let the Lights of the world come forth! “Come to the edge,” he said. They said, “We are afraid!” “Come to the edge!” he said. They came. He pushed them and they flew! Guillaume Apollinaire
Open your mind to infinite realities as we implement the fabulous concept of Eternal Connectedness. Call Curtis Harwell 208-761-4110 and prepare to take your next step!
The Power of Three!
By Life Coach Curtis Harwell
| Let’s start a REVOLUTION! We are “Dream Builders Unlimited.” Imagine Teams of 40 people established in each city and through the Internet. Human potential reaches perfection through triads and group technology. Based upon the principle of Give and Receive, in the following diagram one personal connects with three people who connect with three who in turn connect with three people.We all team up into groups of threes to achieve our goals and dreams. Instead of promoting yourself and your own talents and interests, your two partners or wingmen do that for you. Likewise you put attention on the projects, talents, and ideas of your two partners. As three players align, they are able to open doors of opportunity none of them could have gone through before.
Synergistically, three become one and have the power of nine. Our goal is for Triads to collaborate into larger groups of forty, i.e., One times 40 to the Power of Infinity! 1+3+9+27=40. 13+13+13+1=40. 13×3+1=40. Groups of 40 mix and merge into aNew Life System with power to change the world for the better and overcome all enemies, even death! Would the Synergy of 40 connected people be enough to end disease, distress, pain and physical death? Join us and find out how to turn the tide of human events. What power can prevail against a 40 person Spiritual Armada for good? Embark with us on the ultimate adventure of our time and be part of the originating Prototype. You now have a super strong support system at your service. Collectively we become: a Power Team, An Empowerment Network, Circle of Friends, Entrepreneurs Club, Team of Healing Artists, Consortium of Coaches, Trainers and Mentors, a Molecular Order, a Gathering of Lights, a New Life System, Forever Young Players, What is the meaning of the word Synergy and how does Group Energy expand exponentially? (Why does 3 united = 9 disconnected) Star of David Triad is about linking the Spiritual Triad with the Material Triad into Physical Immortality. |
Here is what the Tibetan Master, Djwhal Khul has to say about working in Triads. From his book Discipleship in the New Age, we find on page 38: “The groundwork of all that you may be asked to do is the Triangle work. The function of the New Group of World Servers is dynamically to “force” the energy of the will-to-good into the world; the average man and woman responding unconsciously will express goodwill. Disciples such as you must work in this field creating and building a network of positive influence. This you can do now, and you can form thus the nucleus of that interwoven pattern of light and of goodwill which must underlie or “substand” all exoteric work of renovation, renewal, and reconstruction. I ask you and other disciples, therefore, again to work with renewed interest at the forming of triangles, reaching people who are already active, and seek to aid them in forming new triangles. This is a work of major importance and has the endorsement of the Hierarchy.”
He goes on to say, “The Triangles of Goodwill are hierarchical in origin; the work to be done by Triangle Members is consequently purely mental and hence exceedingly powerful — this of course when rightly done. ‘Energy follows thought’ and the work of the Triangles is that of directing thought…The work of the Network of Light and Goodwill, focused on the plane of mind, is the utilization of this knowledge to affect public consciousness. The work of the Triangles is to work with the minds of men; the effort is to impress these minds with certain ideas which are necessary to human progress.” Discipleship in the New Age Vol. ll, pg 170
I submit that by we are preparing to take our next most powerful step in personal and social evolution. Inspired by Divine Intelligence, backed by nature and confirmed by intuition, we are boldly crossing the threshold into a greater measure of goodness than we ever thought possible. Remember, we stand on the shoulders of giants. No one is an island. We learn from others who have gone before us blazing a trail of hope, vision and possibility. We follow after them, weaving our own wisdom into a new and better crowning experience; the reward is shared by all! Everyone of us is a vital part of the bigger picture. Together we will create the Kingdom of God on the earth and live to fulfill our destinies! This is the true Gospel message!
New revelations and ideas will follow. By bringing people together in triangular formation we are experimenting with the channeled direction of focused energy which, like a laser, can be used to shed a greater light to a struggling humanity and reveal a higher way by which men and women may achieve their goals and dreams.
I really think we are on to something here…Once I discovered the revelation on Triad Work, I found it to be supported by all aspects of nature as well as many great minds, past and present. The sum is truly greater than its parts. Together let’s open the door to a great and powerful mystery that will be a supreme blessing to us all.
Topics of discussion include:
- Since we are all connected, why not act like it!
- The power of Three is bigger than ME!
- Exploring Triad-Technology.
- Wow! Because of you, I just expanded my Circle of Influence!
- How to build a Human Molecule — next step in Human Evolution.
The only time anything great has ever been accomplished is through the intelligent cooperation of a team of souls sharing the same vision.
Introduce New Life Systems Inc.
Greetings and Happy New Year! It’s 2015 and there is a new Game in town! ! We reached lucky 13, now pick a number between 1 and 40. We are creating a new power team, also known as New Life Systems Inc. Bring onto the playing field, your Projects, Ideas, Talents, Friends, Connections, Energy, Etc.
Be one of 40 high-minded, forward-thinking, community-conscious people capable of forming meaningful and lasting relationships. We recreate ourselves in a positive way by organizing into a perfected, synergistic whole – empowering each other with power to spare.
“And the Lord said, “Build me an ARC.!!! And make it out of people! 40 people per ARC learning to share, support each other and fulfill my will! They shall bring themselves, and each other out of the wilderness of lack, struggle, separation and pain. For my people shall be their own salvation, and Spirit shall be their guide!”
When we link-up, we form a Life-Line that taps into Everlasting current. And through that life sustaining current we have power to fulfill our desires, visions, and make all our dreams come true. In fact, we shall even be able to overcome death, the last enemy and cause of all separation, limitation, pain, and disease.
This is the vision of New Life Systems, and how we will be making a difference in the world. What is your personal vision? What are your dreams and desires? What are the collective resources, skills, talents, connections, offerings, etc., of the group we are forming?
Experience Exhilaration through Acceleration! One way to know what level of consciousness you’re operating on is to notice the amount of momentum you are willing to tolerate. Below a certain level, momentum is frightening, above that level the speed produces exhilaration. If you wish to know the level at which you can operate, and the amount of momentum you can tolerate, join New Life Systems and jump into a 40 person ARC. …
Once the first ARC is completed, its members will enjoy benefits never before experienced – it will be like being in a raft crashing through white-water in complete safety, in a state of calm, balanced, serene equilibrium. Life will take on a whole new quality, like moving from black and white into color as we move into a new reality of peace and prosperity. It will be like breaking through the sound barrier and landing on the Sea of Tranquility.
40 players building win/win relationships. Take a leap of faith and jump onto an ARC- for a greater measure of LIFE! Pick a number between one and forty and e-mail it back to me. We will then go to step 2. I look forward to having you in the game.
Curtis Harwell
Life Coach
Curtis Harwell, Life Coach
Want to make a difference in the World?
Join the Gathering of Lights Project.
Visit our website: www.gatheringoflights.com
Email curtisharwell@msn.com, or call 208-761-4110
It is your next, most powerful move!