2004-8-16 16:59:00
Robert, responding to JJ:
Yet, according your theory - all men have a positive charge and all woman have a negative charge, therefore, all men and woman, gay or straight, have some degree of attraction to each other
John:
Interesting question.
JJ:
Yes, with rare exceptions, all men have a positive charge and women have a negative charge, even gay men and women.
Robert:
and this is certainly open to debate. Likewise, all people of the same sex are of the same "charge" - and because of this - there would be repulsion and not attraction,
John:
Here's my explanation. I would like to know if it is incorrect. Two people of the same sex might both have a positive charge, or both have a negative charge. BUT, relative to each other, one has a positive charge, and one has a negative charge, hence the attraction.
Polarity can only occur then there are two poles, and when the poles have different charges, and when the poles are held apart by a consideration of separateness.
But this doesn't explain why all men (positive) aren't attracted to all women (negative).
JJ:
I have explained this before. We bring old habits, internal memories and mindsets from our past lives. Because energy follows thought a gay man who is +1 may override his weak attractive force toward his opposite polarity. This will generally not be based upon a consciousness effort, but because of past influences.
John:
I have a theory about this, as well. Attraction is caused by a difference in polarity, but at different levels of polarity, there is a ratio of tolerance which must be considered. This example assumes JJ's ideas about polarity and true and correct.
Example:
1. John Wayne (JW) is a +10 and Marilyn Monroe (MM) is a -10. You put them together and there is an instant attraction.
JJ:
Yes, the attractive force would be strong enough to notice if one was paying attention, but one must keep this thought in mind. If his opposite had a wart on his nose or smelled bad then this could be a stronger repellant than the attractive force.
John:
2. JC is a +.3 and TG is a +.1. Put them together and there is an instant attraction.
JJ:
This difference does account for some of the attraction, but the main cause would be other factors. Because they are both close to the zero point the weak force is not strong enough to cause repulsion and this makes it easier to see the perfection in the other and draw forth soul energy. When the energy is drawn forth an attractive force is created that transcends polarity.
The same happens when a +9.0 meets a -9.2. The additions brings us close to the zero point and the soul energy is easier to draw.
Keep in mind that soul energy in this context is neutral and whether it is used for good or evil depends on the person.
John:
So, how come JC and TG aren't attracted to MM?
JC is +.3 and TG is +.1. The power of attraction toward the opposite is determined by the person's charge, not his opposite. JC can only feel an attraction of +.3 even though MM is -10. This is a negligible attraction, one that would require contemplation for him to feel.
John:
If you take the absolute difference between JW and MM, you get 20. That's a 2:1 ratio between the two extremes
JJ:
But you add them together and you get a point of balance or zero. No two people equal exactly zero, but if we come close we will feel balanced, satisfied and desire to be with them.
John:
If you take the absolute difference between JC and TG, you get .2. This is a 2:3 ratio for JC and a 2:1 ratio for TG.
JJ:
Even though it is a two to one ratio the main factor to look at is the difference, which is weak, only .2. What produces a strong relationship is the balance by them both being near the zero point just as a +9.9 and a -10 wind up as a unit near the zero point.
Because the two gays are already close to the zero point they will not experience much magnetic pull toward the opposite sex.
John:
If you paired JC with MM, you would get .3:10 for JC and 10:.3 for MM.
You can see that for certain pairings, the ratio's aren't consistent, a possible explanation of why they don't "click". Perhaps there is an optimal ratio between the difference in polarity and one's one polarity. In other words, the closer you are to zero on the scale, the more sensitive and precise the readings become, but the further you go out on the scale, the less sensitive the readings become.
JJ:
The ratios have little to do with the attraction.
Take two magnets for example, one a +10/-10 in strength and the other one a +1/-1. You then place them together with their opposite polarities approaching. The difference in them is 11, but the weak magnet still only pulls with a force of 1.
An example of this playing out in real life is that a magnetic female may be strongly attracted to a gay man, but the gay is not strong attracted in return and moves out of her magnetic periphery.
John:
This is theory, but I have observed in real life that straight men and women are not very choosy about their partners, and an explanation for this would be the broader range of tolerance. Gay men are often accused of attacking anything in pants, but my experience is contrary to this. They are VERY picky. Unbelievably picky. It is harder for them to find a stable life mate, but when they do hit the jackpot, they stay with them through thick and thin.
JJ:
This is because the attractive force towards the opposite polarity does not get in the way of the gay whereas it causes many straight people to pick the wrong personality for them.
John:
(Sorry, I didn't get any of this from DK. I deduced it from things I heard from JJ and other sources. So, sue me. This is not a course about DK. This is a course in how to think and intuit.)
JJ:
Yes, Robert wanted references from DK on this doctrine, but if anyone reads many of my writings they will see that the purpose here is not to quote and explain what is already readily available, but to present new principles and teachings. Many of these are not found in any other writings.
Where do these come from?
The Oneness Principle.
How can I know if they are true if there is no authority on earth to verify?
Your soul knows.
But I know somehow, that only when it is dark enough, can you see the stars. Martin Luther King Jr. (1929 - 1968)
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